Ch 108 (Not Included in Book) for #leverageyourstory (Part 1)
It’s important not to pass judgment on others as reading through their lives add to the pain. Understand people but you don’t have to empathize with everyone. That only leads to inner turmoil when looking from the outside pass judgment reading as to their insides or present state. That judgment can be felt by the writer who always does their best to communicate well their thoughts. Writing isn’t easy, and it doesn’t need to include fighting or cause discomfort. We are all educated as to our ideas of what life should be like however we all lead different lives.
Sometimes too much negative judgment hurts looking back it’s better not to share then run the risk of negative judgment. It takes awhile to open up to people and share writers are not the most outgoing people everyone is different. Allow people to come forward and share their story when they’re ready not force arrivals upon people who have not yet arrived still getting comfortable in their own skin. That’s not the way to treat people on the inside of any big story, learn to be appreciative of what they do share and be mindful of their spaces in life. You cannot relate to what’s broken or ill you just have to accept people the way they are not overexpose people to ideas about them or about others try to paint a different picture about them. It’s not easy to achieve notoriety you have to be smart to be well received. Working on my smarts right now reading Fire and Fury, Read: Unbelievable, The Making of #donaldtrump, and You Are Here (June 2018). Goal: Read 4-5 Books this Month. #books #reading Stay positive!
Having a meaningful life means not worrying what other people think about you and doing what needs to get done.
We don’t always know what to do. We can do our best and still not be good enough but that doesn’t mean quit doing what you’re doing to get better at where you are or get to better places in life. Just always do your best. “You don’t know what you’ve got til it’s gone.” Lyrics to an #erykahbadu song. Just stay in the present moment with whatever you have in life and find time to value where you are now. The hey days may be long gone but that doesn’t mean the good times have yet to come. Just enjoy life whether or not it’s a good time always find time to give thanks to others for where you are now, each day gets better when you appreciate and value you now.
Get motivated work on your motivations in life to complete projects get your rhythm back it’s not being secretive it’s having a system and sticking to that system of organization that matters most work on self talk not talking to others as you assemble your ideas that’s how to manage your sense of privacy not everything needs to be in the moment shared with someone else most of all you should care about yourself only share the good with others don’t enable others to test for whether you’re good or not based on their assumptions of you not do well
Always think for yourself. Its important to think positive thoughts when things are not going well for you in life that’s how you stay on a positive tangent out of harms way. Sometimes putting negatives together can cause illness, don’t get worked up over negative happenings in life. These are just symptoms of the present, nothings uncertain about life it’s how you live life that matters most.
You can’t plan out life, not even your future by connections you just have to live life as best you can and when you meet others always do your best to #beprofessional. That requires an understanding of the risks and knowledge of the consequences of interaction. When you know right from wrong everything falls into place. We don’t need to know everything to do well in life just #bestrong. No one is psychic enough to prevent things from occurring but we should all be well enough to be accepting of those who cross our paths in life. #michaelavenatti
Live life as perfectly as you can you’ll thank yourself later for it. We all make mistakes in the process of making important decisions sometimes come off too strong in the process of explaining where we’ve been and where we’re headed in life. Success doesn’t come easy to those who are manipulative dependent on reactions from others in order to succeed. So keep your head down, stay focused, and don’t let anyone take your power away. #bestrong
It’s unusual to think that others are thinking of you and making decisions based upon how you live your life. That would be selfish to think that people are about you in life. Allow others to be independent of you. That’s how trust is built not by co-dependency. Learn to forgive often and trust those who trust you. That’s how to build trust. When it’s needed relationships are severed. Let them come to you. That’s how to build likeability. #Trust
Don’t get worked up over the little things in life. We can only be made stronger by listening to others when we are weak and by learning to fall, learn from our mistakes, and be brighter moving forward about ourselves. Life is not simple but it doesn’t need to be hard.
No loss is inevitable. In the stream of subconscious ideations it’s what we think that matters most not what other people think. There’s a range of guilty emotions you feel when you empathize with someone who’s harmed you, don’t give in to those feelings, know your best and stick to that. No one can make you do things you don’t want to do in life to cause you embarrassment. You have to be yourself regardless what people think of you stick to what you know best about you and others.
Love comes from within. You cannot dictate the actions of others toward you you just have to accept people the way they are with or without you do well in life.
Where you are in life you matter. It’s not all together self-evident when we are in the wrong just do your best to stay healthy and despite the opinions of others do well. Not all ideas take off, that’s the argument, whether one is like the other and why. Just be strong. #12pullups2ndGrade
Know yourself well enough to know when to stop. You need to know your limits in life in order to do well for yourself and others. Be concerned about the health of others but not to the extent that you feel a loss of control. That loss of control feeling is based upon your personal outlook in life needs to stay positive.
Leslie A. Fischman
Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 5-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.