Going Through Something ...
Sometimes talking doesn’t help, and if its ever your responsibility to protect other people from harm, then that would not be the time to open up, or to present things in a way, that appears as though you are arguing, or becoming defensive to anyone over their own issues in life, making things about you. When does a good idea, no longer become effective. I think at the point of disagreement, is when whatever side is better situated in life, becomes the representative figure to your story, or decidingly so to speak about you, whether for you or against you in life, and that’s life, not everyone will be on your side, and expect for others to shrug off your issues, in discomfort, not make what youre going through about them either. Rarely are our problems about others, but more to do without own unhappiness in life, or lack of success, failure. Just as your success is important to you, so is the success of those who come into your life, expecting a benefit, whether or not you can provide that benefit, if you are not God you cannot make things happen for people in life, that they cannot readily ascertain on their own, without your help or by use of your identity, and this is where the cookie crumbles. Where someone has provided advocacy, instead is made to appear as though success is generated by the reverse, using people for political stamina, or for vocalization of issues, which then now affect them in the immediate, so why would anyone in harms way waste time energy and effort and money on speaking to everyone, if one cannot protect others from harm, and create a safe space to think, and dissect the issues, in a non-confrontational way, whether that’s with understanding of peoples issues with you, whether that’s to do with your specific identity, wanting to make money off of you, manage people on your behalf, or talk to people on your behalf, degrade you, shame you, and make fun of your ethnicity and heritage, and make fun of an otherwise pleasant interaction, to add fruit to the tree of responsibility, cast you out to be sexually inviting, or not special or unique in it of your self in life, made on your own, success, then that is someone wanting to tell the story of an offender, then situating you similarly, to fail or become suicidal, and treat you as though you are drawn to the wrong things in life, or are taking cues from outsiders, and hurting whatever is inside the equation current that is bringing others stability to not over invest in any ideas or strategies for that matter in putting people down in life, based upon whats going well, eventually you have to leave people alone, and trust that what is going well is going well because one is well and is not causing problems, but once you make things about others, who are at peace with someone who is doing well, then you are allowing for someone to get beat up in life, based upon being misrepresented to not have been endearing, or consoling, or supportive, or friendly, or creative, or loving, or absent minded fears wherever they may lie, rape is not a joke, rape is not a fantasy, and rape whether by technology going through peoples records, or evaluating their medical history does not give you the right to do away with an otherwise pleasant identity online, to affect the life of someone who has improved who is not at risk of harm, who is presently helping others, cause them to feel bad about themselves and not succeed in life, what is conflict? Conflict is someone not understanding why you are well, and test you based on assuming you sent a box of responsibility in life in defense of self, with no allegations made, be treated as though you should understand what is going wrong in your own life, fix yourself, and understand the concept of "the silent treatment.", To make things look or appear to be about what they are thinking, can only do you more harm than good, and instead of clarifying any issues or concerns, you get made out to be the one with issues, or be considered someone who has done others wrong, and thats when your side is not taken, and that is why someone who did not have any problems, later comes to understand life lived with people hard on you not kind to you, if you respond in public unnecessarily in a way that leaves you in isolation in life, dont be that person in life. The less you assume the better off you'll be, and even if at the time nothing is anything or something that you feel equally offended by, that will not stop those who respond in support to anyone you have mentioned, not be in support of you, so thats losing support in life, based upon your mental health, or causes for becoming disillusioned and made to live a harder life than deserved, thats suffering, whether or not you know of what has happened that you have done wrong, those who know you, will always judge you by what you have to say, determine on their own whether you have contributed in a negative way to anything going well, which lends the question of whether you reacted in response to things you understood and became offended by and what was it that caused you to change and be so vocal seeking help in life in a public way. Confidence is a trait that is exerted over you during any period of sickness or instability, its when others expect you to be well, and become disappointed in you if you are not doing well, let alone ever feel embarrassed by you or what you have to say, think that you knowingly speak in a way to effect anyone who does know you or has known you since 2008 (President Barack Obama), so if in one instance you were able to inform prior to an incident occurring, that does not also mean that anyone around you is aware that you have tried to help in the past before law school started, and then try to blame you as being the incident of hospitalization or the person in error or the defective identity known treat you as a source of discomfort, the point of no return will always be what you allow to happen, or whether you do your best to not be an example of something going wrong in the lives of anyone, who would rather not see life through the lens of someone who has ever suffered from mental health issues. So don't make things about you in a negative way, or assume that anything has ever been said in the negative to misrepresent what youre about without mention of your name or face, the less you assume, the less you give power to situation taken into the hands of another, allow to affect you, or be used as a provided excuse for whatever does not go right for you in life. If no one has ever treated me like that, if I don’t deserve to be treated like that, and if that is not helping but hurting others to see someone of value be degraded in public, then that is using someone elses identity, for the purposes of feeling good, and the hurting someone with a clear identity because you do not recognize me as a victim of homicide or a high profile case, equally subjected to illness, sickness, and a mental illness, and disability, if situated on the wrong teams in life. Don’t push someone into a fragile state, and then blame them or treat them as though they are to waste time energy and effort treat as negotiating with the principles of any group being directed by hate, or by impulse, by feeling alone, and without forethought that maybe things are going right its because someone is doing a very good job of living life disciplined. Don’t scare people, don’t intimidate people, and don’t heighten already rumored tensions existing with regards to the direction and focus presently working for others, who are doing their best to steer clear of negative energy or unhappiness in life, I think we have all suffered from enough embarrassment at this point, and I think everyone wants to get strong again, no matter whos family is the frontrunner first in line, up top, or running the show or trying to cheer everyone up, I think we have all suffered at varying lengths and I think everyone is to the best of their ability doing their best to avoid illness at this point in time not be attacked for stupid reasons over how someone holds a private conversation, and what causes them to lose their professional stride. #donthurtwomenplease #menshealth
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