I may not be the best socially, but I can keep up in a conversation once started. Especially if that conversation goes online, always if you have a better way of saying something, present that version of facts, not in the reverse make things more complicated in short, where there need be no added controversies, concerning the current social atmosphere. Its mostly in conversation we listen, and overhear, and listen, and sometimes think that both conversations are affecting one or the other, as listening and talking can occur at the same time, especially in groups of people. Don’t ever be disturbed by the behaviors of others, and remind yourself that its surely not about you, much of what people have to say is a reflection of how they are feeling, not necessarily words drawn upon by your presence, or based upon assumptions about others in their environment, based upon what they hear, as coincidence, or in need of correction. If you are well behaved, one should never have to worry what other people think, I think overtime, the crowds have become less and less obnoxious and/or bossy, a less strong stance is preferred, one in comfort rather than one guarded, Ive noticed. The tougher you are with accepting your environment in, the stronger you are interpersonally and professionally, as not taking things personally, and while at ease, the more approachable you become, and as approached, confidence occurs, when there no longer is a need for perfecting for acceptances or bossing for correction. Its all about how you appear, especially as a blogger, one learns that as described others will be spoken about, and in anticipation of that, sometimes others step up to plate, and make noise, to see how you respond, its just louder … that’s not always about you, sometimes, voices get louder as overheard as people are passing by you, its not directed at you never assume that.