We needed to have this talk. I am speaking on behalf of the Ugly Ducklings, take us out on a date, show us off to your friends, dont just stop by and leave or only call at night. We deserve relationships too. Im anti-abortion and against the use of birth control as a contraceptive have used condoms my whole life, would buy them myself and never got an std in my entire life. Im immature when it comes to dating because I never dated in High School, first boyfriend when I turned 18. If you dont want a relationship than dont come to me for help, it makes me look bad, when I started saying no and not having sex is when I got screamed at ridiculed, if Im not ready Im not ready, then date someone who is ready. I invested 5 years in long term relationships and no ring not sure not ready. I give 150% attention to my boyfriends, if they are not sure make me jump through too many hoops than I leave, and they will always find someone better.