Theres a stopping point, when you stop going backwards and you start living life. Whether you think life is short or long, depends on how you live it fruitfully, to the fullest, or stuck in the moment, we all fog out sometimes and thats okay. We get interrupted, disturbed, and fall off center, and thats okay. Its how you maintain yourself, through the storm that matters most. What can you do today to make tomorrow better, and how can tomorrow, be a day you look forward to waking up to with things to do. If you can't get a job you make a job for yourself, why I made a website portfolio to get jobs. It would defeat the purpose of getting a job if I were to misuse my displays of my best work, for momentary displays of defenses to my good character in response to any one person or set of interest. My writing is best to be used for purposes of self-help, not to raise controversy, or tie people up to issues, or tie people down to issues, or set things so far apart that people feel torn or attach to the extent that they feel withdrawal. Never obsess over the thoughts of any one person, that will not set you free, but only brings you down to their level, and leave you behind in life, once expressed, you get looked at like you have problems, and personal issues, and that you are the reason why you do not have any significant others, or are the cause for your own misfortunes or breakups in life. Always do you best to stay well and be there for others, you cannot do everything well if you yourself are not well, living life requires a lot of balance, in order to have it all you have to be happy with where your at in life, and think about what can you do to make yourself have a better life, different from places that have brought you unhappiness in the past, so that you do not have to revisit those issue again in the future, become a better person. Life is about bettering yourself everyday. It should not matter how others see you well now and that comparison to you past, being different or not, determine be used to determine how well you are doing now, compared to when you were not well and those interactions occurring when you were not well be used to judged you when you are well. Don't worry about possibilities, just worry most about doing what is right and in your best interests, not worry about how others live their lives and how they may or may not have the ability to affect you in your life and how you live your life.
You can't hurt people's impetus in life, for doing things, or judge their rationale for how they live their life, where they're going or where they're headed in life, make decisions for them or try to influence their decision making and what they do with their lives. That's not how to help others. You don't know people well enough to make decisions for them or influence them in any way. That's not leadership. Leadership is not by influence, its by your good health, thats called co-dependency, when you try to shelter and or change the course of an individual best suited to your interests, thats called selfishness, not in the best interest of others nor your own once abandoned. Abandonment occurs when someone who wants an particular outcome to occur in their favor, does not occur, then they abandon all together those interests, and by the time they are educated and/or realize what they have done whether caught up in a moment or that moment of clarity comes afterward, means that that person in the moment is trying to justify not knowing what they were doing at the time they were doing what they were doing, is trying to avoid being responsible for outcomes afterward, by justifying that they are happy and clear, and denying moments when happy or not clear, try to justify their treatment of others. Usually after the fact, the lower hand, is made knowledgable of the upper hand, the upper hand is not a hand that gets shown. #nobel #pulitzer - You cannot take cases and smash them together to make a case against someone who is not related or force relationships to occur, fitting to your personal interests, that's man made. We at best can only be ourselves. #stopsuicide
You never know for what dispositions others falter, or lose esteem. You have to be patient with others, as they grow, learn, and come to know themselves. Everyone grows at different paces in life. We are not all strong, we are only human. Its important to understand the temperature of your surroundings. How to best behave and know and recognize patterns. Its not always obvious. How and for what reasons disturbances occur during times of peace. We have to just be happy for others, and allow others to shine for their own happinesses in life. Not make jealous, not make unhappy. There are times in life when we can explore the possibilities and there are other times when we have to just make due with what we have. Not everything is a joke. You have to be thankful and happy for others. Not everything is a manifestation or reaction based upon insecurities. Some of us are secure with ourselves but made insecure by others. Thats not how to make strong one another, by secrets or by pleasure, to one another pitfalls, happinesses, or unhappy adventures in life. Thats not how to make happy oneself by making fun of another's quiet life, and then amplifying that life to make certain is for reasons other than for good reasons. Thats not how to treat people, by putting them in a defensive position, made to look ill or bipolar. Thats not how to treat people, as pawns or to make them make you look smarter or better than. Thats not how to make strong others. By preying upon their weaknesses, thats not how to make strong others. It doesn't work that way, thats not how to empower others during times of need, by making them feel small or less than, thats not how you treat someone with an inferiority complex i.e. easily intimidated by others.
There's a pain that comes with happiness. It's not always obvious. But whenever we remember the good times, we also remember the bad times, the mind has a funny way of reminding us of the past. Always stay in character. This can be difficult at times, we wander. Don't wander too far. It's always in pleasantries that we feel most comfortable, not pulled aside, or off guard, or out of character. We often get misread. It is not the fault of the readers, but of our input how we present ourselves matters. Its important to always be happy for others. In good times and in bad. We receive so many blessings in life, not to be abused, including our own lives. Whenever we are not happy with ourselves, thats not an opportunity to shine upon our weaknesses, and never a time to make not genuine the best interests of others toward us. People will plant seeds, hopefully good seeds. Those seeds planted whether they disrupt our well being or not, should never tear us downward. It is never the fault of the victim, and when thirst upon any spotlight, make due with what they've got. Its not our responsibility to handle the spotlight of others, whether they shine or don't its not our responsibility to represent others interests toward us. We are either accepted in life, or not. Whether for what and by what circumstances, we make due. You cannot have it all in life, sometimes we are left with less than, sometimes, we are left with more than, but its always important to trust. When we trust we give thanks. When we give thanks we trust. And with trust bears the burden of responsibility. That with that trust the benefit runs to the receiver of trust. The benefit need not run toward the giver of trust, that is a fallacy of thought, that when trust is given that there is some expectation or rewarded benefit for having given a sense of trust. Whenever one is pulled out of a closet that they got put in (2009) that closet hurts. Whenever someone gets put in a closet by the secrets of others, that burden hurts. Always be mindful of the secrets of others, and for which those secrets are kept. You never know to whom you are hurting whenever you find excitement in the secrets of others. There is no excitement when it comes to coming forward in life, or being kept in the shadows in life. There is no comfort in compared whenever something bad happens, or when that spotlight gets miss-shed upon another, deserving or not, its is important to always think twice before using people as props or before communicating within how someone feels about themselves, does not always help those with low self-esteem find theirs. Sincerely, #mymollydoll.
My Theory on News: You can listen but you can't allow the news to affect you or your sense of direction in life, thats not how to interpret by internalizing everyone else's problems, when you have your own life to lead. Life is not about small talk, figuring out people, thats not how to have and enjoy small talk by getting political in your conversations, and trying to communicate within a conversation a political ideology or belief system separate from the contents of the conversation bring in outside information into a conversation to get a reaction without well the person to whom you are talking to for what purposes you made a comment, and then using that reaction to understand a different picture without telling the person to whom you are talking to for what purposes you are communicating with them. That's called being manipulative, having some outside purpose, other than a good genuine purpose for conversation, and receiving more than what is intended by the person communicating to you. In research we have informed consents, unfortunately in conversations there is no such rule in existence governing the conversations of people, in small talk, or getting the beliefs of others from them, without them knowing for what purposes they are sharing. Always share from your perspective not the perspective of others, thats how you feel locked out of a conversation, or in tune with something or someone outside of yourself, then end up feeling underrepresented or misrepresented.
Sincerely, #mymollydollnews #mynews.
Re: News Addiction /// Please See Hashtag #dontdodrugs and my page. Its time to move forward, if you need to go backwards thats okay, sometimes we need to go backwards to figure out now. #becareful
"Coping with Drug Addiction and Abuse is no easy task, it takes time to forgive others, and to forgive yourself, never stop improving daily, figuring out what it is that makes you happy, not attaching to substances to make yourself better, thats not how to achieve in life. When you are focused on something positive positive things come into your life, when you are focused on negatives, things have difficulty working themselves out in your favor, succumbing to your own weaknesses and the weaknesses of others. Always be in control. Willpower is about knowing when to stop, and not attaching to things that hurt you, your self-esteem, or your image. #dontdodrugs There are many ways to get help, if its attention that you need, then there are many NEW text messaging services available online, for coping. I am pleased with this service and recommend this service to those coping with abuse and addiction, think of something else other than drugs and abuse. Attach to positives." (Facebook "Shine Texts" written by #mymollydoll).
Theory on Stopping Crime /// You can't treat people like they are blind for going backwards in life, or for looking like they are in a fog, or as though you think you know more than them about life, everyone has their own life to live, its for no one to judge the way that people live their lives, thats not how to make better others, by telling them what is, or for what their acceptance is of what is, that is for each one to figure out on their now how to think about life, how to think about themselves, and how to think about others. There is only so far that you can go with acceptance, before it becomes blame or before it becomes fighting over the justification of the actions of others, thats where the buck stops. #SCOTUS If what you see in others reminds you of something or someone, then thats your memory of events and people, not everyone has the same memory or upbringing, everyone is brought up differently to think and see different things, that is not anyone person's responsibility to dictate how to think, or what to think, its all about respect not trust, in order to live life well you must listen to others, that is how best to be and behave with respect for others, its called having a common courtesy, its not about the private lives of others, that you should judge them but about how they live publicly from which point on they will be judged. #stopsuicide. Its important to forgive others, and allow people to move forward in life, its for no one to change the lives of others, or to make different the lives of others, or to tell others, what is real what is not real, and how to think. When you change your mind, you change yourself, when you change others, for what benefit does that concern or make different one's self, but for only a benefit. For what benefits of or concerning your interests make is necessary to change others. Acceptance is about accepting people the way they are, not for who they are in private or public. Its not any one person's responsibility to judge the health of others, in good health, or not in good health. Everyone deserves a chance to grow up, blossom, learn, and see for themselves, what it is a life they want to lead, and what it is thats hurting their ability to live their life, whether it's the past or their present, not make different others, when you yourself are not doing well, not make different or change others, when you yourself are not happy, and not make different others, when you are to blame for the consequences of your own actions and footing in life.
You can't use people as political figures to get ahead in life or to tell a story about people as they are coming up, so when people look back on their lives think less of them. Thats not how to treat people, as representatives of your interests, and for your best interests to take precedent over the best interests of all. Thats not how to treat people like they are trying to come up in life, or to get rid of people you think are not deserving of accolade or of achieving in life. Everyone deserves to earn a living. Everyone deserves a job. Its not for anyone to be judged differently based upon their status as employed or unemployed, and based upon that status judge them of being ill or on drugs. Thats not why people dont have jobs, people dont have jobs because there are no jobs, because people dont have money, thats why I stayed in school. Based upon experience you get jobs in life, and based upon those experiences you do well in life. Never be insensitive to others, as you are trying to establish yourself. Don't take on the identities of others, trying to perfect yourself, its in everyone's interests to have their own identity and sense of self. Thats the problem. When people think you are blind or are at risk of harm, they hurt you. Thats not how to treat someone, turning them into something they're not, based upon your judgements of them, or based upon your non-experience working with people who have mental illness. I do not have mental illness. I am well. I just recently got sick again, sick 2013, and sick 2017, from alcohol and dating. #mymollydoll. I am not to date, there are some people who are healthy enough for love and some people, who dont need it, and prefer to work professionally without love. Love is unwanted, and unwanted love you politely explain how you would like to be treated, and thats how that behavior is corrected otherwise you avoid people who you think are too aggressive with you. Why I dont date. Why I just work professionally, just wrote a book.
Don't transfer your illness, to the well, to resolve your pains in life, inflict harm upon someone who looks well, but is in pain but does not discuss it out loud. Allow people to be well, without judgment, out of harms way. You can't hurt people out of poor judgment of them seeing them as ill or not good enough cause harm to their lives or reputation. Don't take things personally, everyone suffers their own harms in life, some suffer the harms of others, some suffer for the harms of others, some are attached to harm. Allow people to grow at their own pace, not blow things out of proportion make things about you or connect ideas that cause you illness and argue is existing. Allow people to exist on their own not by your judgments of them. This is about allowing people to #livelife. Not on your terms. You dont beat people up when their down, and cause head and throat burn to writers. I wrote a beautiful book, being edited now, Im very smart, dont compare me to the ill, so that people treat me like Im ill, hospitalize me. Thats wrong. Don't attach to people, to change their disposition in life, or by and when they come up in life, are not accepted by others, by something past you've done to hurt their good character, thats called sabatoge. Don't hurt people. Don't compare people. Everyone is brought up differently. Everyone works hard. People meet at different times in life not everyone knows the same information. Re: Head Burn. Don't argue w/ #victims. The causes for people's illnesses are unwanted connections. It's not about luck. I pay for help now.
You can't partner with people, who insult you. Then allow them to tag along, once they feel good and ready, or so choose to support you. You cannot take personally, the minor offensive comments by others, as justification for self-harm, or provoked retalitory commentary used to justify self or others, and then take personal the non-reaction of others toward you. What others feel is just, and what ideas others come up with upon meeting you, for their uses is not for your worry, the businesses of others, and how they consume your content, is no one's responsibility, how people try to connect with you on a personal level is not to be taken offensively, but always be appreciative of people who try to help you. If it requires too much, for acceptance, then let go. If it requires too much for comfort, then let go. If it requires for you to be someone that you are not, to attach, then let go. It is not required that your connections be the connections of others, everyone has their own systems of support, and those systems of support, are not required to support their support of others. Everyone is autonomous, the arguments you give away in favor or in support of others, are your ideologies, not to be mixed up with the ideologies of others, no one in communication is expected to agree to anything they are not comfortable with, and if the causes you support, bring them discomfort, then its not a match, and you politely support their efforts, but are not required to partner with them. Regarding acceptance, and maintaining esteem in the community. Its by your associations you will be judged, and by your associations others will not see you, but which those associations will judge you by as good enough or not. When people do not know you, they are more likely to judge you based upon your presence online as accepting or not, and by those judgments become defensive as whether your worthy of attention or not, help or not, esteem or not, then judge themselves by comparison as better than or not. The act of helping others, requires no persuasion, of the interests of others, for the sake of non-criticism, how we judge others, is by their defenses why they have judged you as good enough or not, and when they let their guard down, its a manifestation of their need to not look provocative or not. In whatever circumstances its always by presentation and effort one should be judged online, not based upon their personal interests and likes, should not be the way to judge someone online, but by the effort they put forward to presenting themselves as good enough or not or worthy of your attention. Sincerely, mymollydoll.com #lesliefischman