A little inspiration goes a long towards living without regrets. How we are evolving day by day is similar to the evolution of social networks. Our lives take time to progress and while that is happening, we gradually realize how much we have grown physically, mentally, and emotionally. A major chunk of this evolution was taken over by the surroundings we live in. How we have progressed so much shows the standards of the society we have been a part of since our birth. The way that our parents raised us to how we matured within the upcoming years lets us know about the significance of the social behaviors we reflect on a daily basis.
Since humans are social animals, they require the company of other people who have similar tastes and thoughts as their own. Not just by conversation are we connected, the inner workings of adaptation stressful at times. If you’re not comfortable with your surroundings, it makes it difficult to perform internally and express those concerns out loud. Its important to always keep a level head, not expect more than you can handle, and not try too hard pushing yourself beyond your limits and the limits of others. We all have our shortcomings in life, some more successful than others, and by those representations of self are we judged, by our past. What you do have control over is how you feel, presentation is everything, not necessarily how others respond to you, should dictate how you feel inside, not everything is about you nor directed toward you in life, some commentary is just about making conversation not to hurt your feelings, or get inside your head. We all experience empathy, and to be trusted is to be understood at your best. You cannot understand the communications of others, as in competition for understanding, be better understood by others, if you don’t listen well, it makes it difficult to communicate in a way to which you can be understood, have compassion, and don’t always play up to your audiences in life, as read, the best conversations are ones had with oneself, let that positivity flow through your conversations out loud, not just to ones self, this is a learning lesson much to do with social media.
Even in the era where early humans would live in caves, they would still prefer to stick with their families and hunt in packs. This would help them get a better catch to feed on for the rest of the days. It was a way that people would bond with each other, while simultaneously working together to collectively progress and survive. Since then, humans have progressed and invented complex languages to communicate with each other. These gave them a way to express their emotions and allowed everyone a set of defined rules to understand and follow. The way people communicated helped them make friends and build on their relationships. The more they were kind and understanding towards each other, the better the chance they had at living a life with a lot of dear ones surrounding them.
Similar to that, there is something that evolves within us when words are spoken. When keeping the social aspect in mind, the power of words is usually underestimated. But despite that, words still have a strong influence on every person, which is done by using the platform that social media has provided us. The way we behave and how we think shows a lot about our overall personality. When words are spoken, there is a particular reaction expected to occur afterwards. Reactions that are important for a person as they carry weight to either prove or disapprove the theories of prior evolution of thoughts. Because of these reactions, the thoughts our mind is preoccupied with matter. What we think and how we behave matters for every single person.
There is a reason that everything is going social nowadays. These social networking sites can have both, negative and positive side effects on people; especially teenagers. Even after teenhood, we are getting to understand the social norms and how we should adapt to them with the passage of time. We realize who is worth to talk to and whom we should stay away from. This is all because of social media, which lets us be aware about the consequences of getting into toxic relationships with people present around us. It tells us who is our real friend, and how people portray themselves differently in front of the eyes of social media.
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All of the above-mentioned factors highlight the importance you have in the eyes of others and how your behavior is supposed to change when you succeed in your goals. Some people may feel proud of your personality development and would love to interact with you on social media. This will happen if you are keeping your self-interests in mind and working on your personal betterment.
However, there will come a day when people will judge you without any particular reason. Even if you are not doing any harm to anybody because of your thoughts, people will still find flaws in you. This can happen due to many reasons as they might have a grudge against you or just do not like you for who you are as a person. Through the help of social media, you get way ahead of all this mess as you realize who adores you the most and who you should not even try to befriend. It is important to know how to keep yourself away from problems and live a healthier, happier life.
When people don’t like you and don’t come up to you because you don’t have a paid job or you don’t fall over their standards, then don’t worry about it. Don’t overthink about what they feel about you or say behind your back. Try to fight back and never let the negativity get to you. They will understand one day what’s important and what’s not about people. They will also know what to care for, who to care for, and why.
The way people talk about on social media, whether positively or negatively you, reflects their overall character and personality. So you should not feel low after listening to other people’s opinion about you. You should not care about anybody else apart from yourself as in your life, you should always come first. You need to use social media in a better way where you can make some good friends as well. But only if you feel like doing so. Do not force yourself to do something that you do not want to, neither should you force somebody to be your friend.
Sometimes, this not only depends upon your luck, but also on how you portray yourself on social media. For example, if you are tweeting about how to fight stress in your life, then you might be able to interact with people who are used to stressful conditions. They will feel good after reading your tweets and this will also show how much you care for them. Your thoughts are powerful and can have a good impact on other people’s lives. All you need to do is use their power in the right manner through social media.
Personally, I have seen a lot of positive changes in my life after I let out my thoughts on social media and used them to help others. This brought me closer to knowing myself and helped in grooming my overall personality. How I think now is different from how I used to back then. I am happier today because of the shifts in my thoughts, and social media has been there to help me out.
To improve your thought process, you must not take anything to your heart. You should not give any of your negative thoughts the authority to destroy you from within. You should rather try your best in everything that you do and think in a positive manner. As soon as you start thinking about positive things, even your health will get better. For that reason alone, you will behave nicely on social media and people will be inspired by you. In no time, you will attain the right motivation that others have been looking for. Nothing could be better than helping others and making them happy, but for that you will have to become happy first. You can only bring change through social media if you are bringing a healthy change in your life.
Sometimes it’s what matters for you the most that counts toward your successes in life. What matters to you is something you are destined to do in life and this will help you in moving forward. How you cope up with such important matters will be a reflection of the good wits about you.
Similarly, you cannot piggy back on the successes of others if you are not doing well in your life. Always remember who was there for you when you were down and take help from social media in knowing other people.
Another thing you should know about is that the more you will fuss over little things in life, the more self-centered you will become. A person who is self-centered only thinks about themselves and never gets happy about anything in life. They think they can own more than they have right now and this type of negative thinking will never help them in moving forward in life. You need to know that the more you make things about your needs, the less other people will care.
When you will behave like this on social media or in real life, people will identify you as a selfish person who does not care about others at all. This is not something you should be proud of and as soon as you will change this negative trait of yours, people will start appreciating you. So try to improve yourself and work on your weak points. The more you will focus on bettering yourself, the more people will want to be around you. This is the reality of life that keeps on revolving around your thought processes, your behavior, and what you perceive your future to be like.
To be a proper support system, you must first represent yourself well on the social media and in person. Why successful people surround themselves with successful people in life is only because they have experienced the hardships behind succeeding. You are at times a reflection of who you’re surrounded by and this will let you know about the type of friends you have and will make on the social media.
To be honest, it’s all a matter of manifestation: what you see, you become, especially when it comes to you on its own. Just like that, it is always up to you and how you want to do things by the end of the day. Your mind and cognitions should be in your control. Once that will happen, you will succeed and attain your goals at an alarming speed.
When your mind will focus more on the things you need to take care of for a better future, you will be provided with an idea about how you should lead your life and how can you influence others to follow in your footsteps. This is all that should matter to you right now and without such a mentality, you will never be able to move forward in life. So try to engage with other people through social media and help others as much as you want to help yourself.
When you match up well in life, that’s called fitting in and finding your niche. It’s important to always maintain a level head about you and groom yourself whenever you can. Who you are tells what you represent and who others are shows what they represent. Just like that, others cannot represent you if you yourself do not represent yourself in the best way possible.
If you will follow the advices mentioned above, then you will have higher chances to progress further in life. Obviously, it is not always about success, but if you are happy in life, this means you have succeeded and crossed the hurdles life has thrown your way. Success is not about making money or being filthy rich, but it is about reaching your end goals in a smart manner. When you will become smarter and more mature in life, you will use social media in an efficient way and make friends who are termed as good company. You will have more control over your emotions and you will be focused towards the goals you have set in mind.
Clearly, nothing can be better than reaching those goals that you are passionate about, and making yourself satisfied by achieving them. This can only be possible if you have a clear mindset and you do not indulge yourself in making unhealthy relationships through social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and Snapchat. With the help of these positive changes in your life, you will also stay away from becoming depressive and anxious. So calm yourself down, behave in a way that will reflect a good aspect of your personality, and take as much help from social media as much as you can.
Think wisely. Life goes on so try to be sensitive to the needs of others. What gets amplified gets compared as a result, so know your limits. Always do your best at whatever you do in life. Try to forgive and forget as forgiveness is everything. Not just that but it’s what you choose to focus on what matters the most, accepted or not. Also, acceptance is about the comforting ability of you with your own self. Know the difference between your nightmares and your dreams in life, and for all to go well, plan out well in your favor. See the good in the world, not just yourself. Think well and do well on social media.
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