If you’re waiting for the next chapter of your life to unfold, or waiting to lose another 10lbs before you get back out there, don’t wait too long, and miss opportunities in life, you never know who will like you and accept you just the way we are. The tendency is to wait until you’re at your best to date, rarely do we put ourselves out there broken, you’re likely to face the hurdle of uncomfortable conversations about the past and where you have been not focused on where you are now. Always set goals for yourself, conversation wise, what is it that you are doing now to be the best version of yourself, and well if you’re comfortable with who you are now, there is no reason why someone else should not be comfortable around you either. Life is short, but not short enough to wait. Whether you’ve been waiting for that special someone, or healing from a past relationship, forgiveness is key in order to move forward. You should be fully moved on by the time you start a new relationship, although its easy to go backwards youre bound to get hurt by the same circumstances that separated you from your loved ones in the first place. You deserve someone who wants to be with you, who pays attention to you, keeps tabs on you, and genuinely enjoys your company. People are looking for someone with some direction and focus, a keeper, that is someone who is disciplined and driven in life, bound for success. We can’t always be that … pace yourself, get through your freezes in life, and if dating is one of them, you’re not alone, there are plenty of people who take a sabbatical from dating to work on themselves, and if its been several years since you’ve dated well maybe nows a good time to start asking yourself why you’ve been holding out on meeting new people. Even though “being involved with another person means hard work that doesn't always get reciprocated” that doesn’t mean that all relationships will be that way, some are easier than others, if you find the right matches in life.  Nowadays with all these harassment standards, its hard to meet people in your lives already, on that level, its best to date through services in which you know whether others are single or taken, before dedicating your hearts to them.