Comfort with Self ...
I think theres a high expectation of someone who is a writer online to be comfortable with themselves enough to speak, some are soft spoken, if not used to talking in a public environment, that’s your whole life not a public speaker, then its hard to start talking at any later point in time, just be respectful of people who CHOOSE to write instead of talk, that’s I MY choice. Someone who is comfortable with themselves does not necessarily mean that they are comfortable talking or comfortable with their bodies, just because someone is portrayed as something they they are not, does not mean at some later point in time that way with all, or give the same equitable treatment to all, as though that’s deserved given their standing as lesser than. Don’t portray yourself as something you are not, that is what is to be learned of all of this, and then be treated as something you are not. My best friend accepted my friend request a few days ago, please leave her out of things, and not as meeting me tell your story as though I am someone special or someone who as known, have been affected by, live your lives as separate from my stories or how I have managed my life, my heart, my intuitions, and my thoughts, just because a different set of reactions occurs within you upon reading my writing does not mean that my body works the same way, just as no mind works the same way, everyone is different, you cannot treat all people the same, that doesn’t mean that they require special treatment it just means that as they are they are different, no one is made special by knowing someone special, if you want to feel special do well in life, no one can change they way you interpret life, just as I cannot change the interpretations of others about my life or things that I say as misunderstood, care rescinded, or to justify a past rescission of care, if upon being left to your own devices in life, are not as strong, then its important not to blame others, who as described or felt they have been described justify treatment of you as though you are an outter of special interests or BY misinterpretation MISREPRESENT others or YOURSELF. -Represent yourselves in life.