privacy is so important ...

​Privacy is so important to any conversation … sometimes what makes you smile can come across as obnoxious as told by others, maintain steady ground always in the acceptance department … don’t be too hard on yourself … not everyone is reading, you can’t control people or their commentary or their thoughts. To be stable minded you have to think from within … not as in response to others … when everyone looks innocent its probably because they are and just minding their own business, it’s a lifestyle choice to not do well in life … not because of discrimination or victimization or whatever you think is the problem its probably more to do with you than others … let the innocent shine and be good to yourself in order to receive praise from others and feel apart of … it wont always be the case that youll shine and it wont always be the case that youll stand out youll have your good and bad days the most important thing for anyone to do is blend in not because you have angst or discomfort but because you genuinely want to not offend others, by your attitudes in life and genuinely not offend others by your discomforts in life, you cant keep your head down through all of life sometimes you have to look up. -I have attachments in life but not to people, to things, call that addiction, while separated from my computer in the shop fractured my hand … that’s a loss of control to a space I find comfort in … my computer. Don’t go bizerk because you have experienced a financial loss or a property loss, it happens to those who are not well me included, its not the responsibility of others to manage what is of value to me, only my responsibility not to complain upon such losses, or for things that I say out of tune. If people know your story or know about you they will test to see if you are that way and in doing so … hurt your esteems by making you look stupid or out of control and feel out of sorts, don’t be nice to people one day and gone the next and hope that everyone understands when that happens to people its not because of drugs or alcohol but because their mind is someplace else, why its important to focus on things that don’t change in life, as well as accept the changes that go on around you … you are only human, all humans age, aging is a process and so is trust.