There are days when you will be proud of yourself, and other days you will feel less than. That’s just a normal process of letting go and moving forward in life. It could be that youre doing nothing wrong, and symptomatic, and sometimes, even when youre doing your best, will you experience symptoms of mental health issues, its not your fault, its just a chemical imbalance, why its important to always seek medical assistance whenever you feel an imbalance or do not feel like yourself. As a website builder, you experience a lot of difficulty managing passwords, opening accounts, managing accounts, getting your computer cleaned, being wary of hacking, it requires a lot of oversight to build a website, absent minded any competitions along the way. It is very expensive to build a good website, you have to invest a lot of time and energy to write and perform in front of an audience, being consistent, and not turned into something youre not, an unhappy person, or someone with a negative outlook, when speaking in front of any group of people. The better you do, the more likely you will be copied or imitated, sometimes in good humor, and sometimes to share how others have been affected by knowing you, thinking you deserve an underminded opinion of you, you are not able to argue about, or acquire information about you, without you knowing, by going through your personal spaces, and misconfiguring information, to suit their best interests or negative opinions of you. Any added justification for your lack of successes in life, is more fruit for their labor, to hurt you, dismember you, or take from you what is of value, thinking you do not deserve to possess the fruits of your own labor in life. We all deserve to work, and we all deserve to earn a living, and if you can stay well enough to do so, then all the more power to you. Spend less time interpreting the past, as others testing for your reactions in life trying to get you to flip out, or appear desperate, or non-sensical, and do your best to code with pride, as you see fit, without alarming others of the consequences or potential for harms you have suffered along the way, be kind.
Its by who you know in life, you are discriminated, based upon how you dress, either carry sensitivities toward others, or deemed to be insensitive by how you display yourself, what clothes you wear, how you speak, and how you behave, some wish not to be represented by others, when what you represent is of high value, then its better to lay low, then to be on top, its better to work hard for yourself, not work hard for others, and be disappointed when others are not pleased with you. Good women come a dime a dozen, those not spent, those yet to experience mental health issues, those who stay chaste, those who stay sober, and those who do not do drugs, those are they who are not yet jaded by life, by men, or by whoever has the capacity to hurt their feelings and their self-esteems in life. A woman’s success is dependent upon how she feels about herself, how others feel about her, her femininity, her strength, her class, her intelligence, her popularity, how well she is liked, who she is admired by, her cares, he physical health not limited to athleticism, determines how tall she stands, not all who are confident are loved or get reinforcements in life, some grow up with hugs, some grow up with no hugs, the number of hugs you get in life does not determine your future potential to be loved or ability to give love to others, its more important to love yourself, and be successful in life, whether that’s by having a career, children, taking care of others, perfecting your skills in a trade, working from home, and being surrounded by the well, which does not always equal like-minded individuals spiritually or professionally, we are all made to feel well by what we have in life, some feel better having something someone else wants, and some feel better included, when they are deemed of higher priority than others, made to feel important, in some cases women are treated as friends, and in other cases women are treated as professionals, it all depends on who you work for and who you are friends with, not all women are treated the same, some for benefit, some for attraction, some for work, we are not liaisons to gather more support, although we make great middle men in life, able to read all sides well, born compassionate required to empathize and care for others, be ladylike, eventually all who get placed in the middle of arguments or sides, experience mental health issues, reading all sides. If someone is not willing to treat you as special, and puts you down in life, then they do not value you as much as you value yourself, the only way to be of value and to be valued by others is to love yourself first, and make yourself a priority in life, the better able you are to demonstrate that you care for yourself and have cared for yourself, the more likely others will come to believe that you did care for yourself, and when you cared for yourself, it was others who did not care for you that hurt your feelings, why your feeling down, not because of your own mistakes in life, don’t look worse than it is, then things get worse before they become better, having a good life is all about seeing everything in the positive, that’s letting go, remembering your good years, and not deflecting attentions away from you in life, by becoming ill by having poor memories of your past when self-harming, that’s when others become disappointed with you, when you lose your sense of faith and wellness in life.
If you want to be well respected in the community to which you work, be consistent, that means show up on time, and be a diligent worker, that doesn’t just include eye contact, but it also means sticking to the assignment, and not veering off course, losing focus to personal issues in life. What you do outside of work, and what goes on in work are two separate environments, either cannot be used to save you from problems existing outside of work, that is something you have to figure out on your own, why in some environments you thrive and others you dwindle. Sometimes wellness is credited to people in an environment, and sometimes people get blamed for contributing to the mental health issues that others suffer from, because of their mistakes in life, unfit to be apart of socially. Whether you have a positive effect on the wellness of others, depends on how positive you are. You cannot control what people think. The primary experiment is looking for creation of someone to whom all can agree upon is in the wrong, whether for posting flyers, or for encouraging others to provide advocacy, that is how I cared at the time, there are other jobs, and ways to help others, online, by hashtag, or by promoting yourself online to others. Sometimes people hold negative judgments of others, it is all about how you appear, once you are not well, its harder to be accepted by others, and easier to respond in the negative, that is self-harm, which is difficult to prove, so long as others continue to think that you think you are famous or are trying to be well known, that is the extent to which you can be hurt by others, getting you to think you are bigger than you are, raise your expectations of yourself, and then cause you harm, once those expectations are not met, for whatever is the basis of your insecurities in life. Friend loss, femininity, sobriety. If nothing is said, the worst is assumed, others will continue to base your faults in life, as you being too vocal about your associations in life, until your life becomes a nightmare, if life was never that way for you, then dont now believe that you are ill because others think less of you, or think that you are mentally ill, then dont help others, help yourself. Don’t be sensitive to the moods of others, and when you arrive to a new place in life, give adequate time for others to move forward, that is giving yourself time, looking back, not to hold resentments, and for them not to fear that you hold resentments toward them. That is why its important to continue your education and keep applying for jobs, and when you are not well, keep busy, whether thats reading, or writing, any form of therapy is a plus, especially when things don’t work out, if journaling is new to you, then I would not suggest journaling online. Whenever you come forward about how youve been harmed in life, if these are just abstract assumptions about what others thought of you, then just learn how to let things go. However you are usually to blame, whether its your addictions, or simply just being tired, the negative will always be assumed, and provoked until that outcome is produced, stomach upset, foul behavior, smells, mental illness, lack of social graces, or appearing grose to others, if they think you were that way because of a few bad experiences in life, then they will cast you out as being the negative experience and not care if you are not well now. Know that you deserve to live, and no form of embarrassments past are worth dying over or self-harming for. You are responsible for maintaining yourself, your input, and your output, all of which gets used to determine your intelligence in life and trustworthiness. The fears that others have are not contagious, but dont expect to be resilient to the stresses of others, it is likely as someone empathetic to be affected whenever someone expresses displeasure with you, to see if you again self-harm, learn from those incidences, and dont report on social media when you are harmed (we talked about this 2008), how it happens until thought to be deserved, then you become known as the person people hurt. The reputations you hold in life, matter, as someone speaking in public, whatever secrets you hold, are likely to get beaten out of you until told, verbatim or in the abstract to okay what is said about you, just ignore negativity. This is not a group project, wellness, you either are well or you are not apart of those who are well, and it is likely if you are not well, to distance yourself from others. That is a natural reaction to experiencing mental health issues, not a result of animosity or lack of positivity, its about wellness, for the sake of others wellness, while under attack, not socializing with others, thats fair. Dont ask for favors from others when you are not well, no one will help you if they think you are to blame for what is affecting them at this moment. If you need to repair your image repair your image, if its to gather more support, then work, if that still does not undo negativity toward you, then dont self-harm, even if others are making fun of you, or what keeps you well, or how you are staying well in life: running, reading, writing, now working. In life via association, not all will stand tall, everyone is entitled to their right to privacy, be there for friends you care about, and allow them to have space to organize their thoughts if they are going through something, drinking is not the solution. Do not blame those to whom you grow disassociated from, it is likely when you dont hear from others, if they dont see your face, worry or think poorly of you, the point of putting you down in life, is so that people are not affected by you, even if it hurts your feelings. People do not know you until you disclose what it is that’s going on in your head, otherwise they likewise do not understand why you are not feeling well, allow them to assume its not disability, everyone has high hopes in life, some news is unnecessary news about self, be open, and allow whoever comes into your life, to trust you on their own good timing, dont self-harm. When you start working, or go out again, be courteous of others, be polite, dont come off too strong, dont forget to smile, dont drink if drinking leads to sex, dont do drugs if drugs lead to mental illness. Note that if you have had limited exposures in life, do not become defensive to when your good character is put to the test, that is to determine your level of street intelligence, book smarts, emotional intelligence, interpersonal skills, and wisdom to determine whether you are at fault. For whatever reasons by your exposures you felt rushed in life, thats okay, everyone is entitled to respond how they see fit, but its never okay to hurt others, never to communicate. There are better forms of communication, than violence, that includes self-harm, property damage, drug use, drinking, or expression of illness in public, being grotesque or flamboyant, not lady-like. Thats not leadership, thats mental illness, whenever you feel the necessity to help others by instructing them of what the issues are, that is when it becomes personal. If you see bad things happening, theres a way to get help without causing more harm to self and others. You will be interpreted as being condescending toward someone, who by that time, comes to understand that they known more about life, and youve been through less in life. Hopefully they will think no less of you. Who is at fault, when someone is harmed, who rarely goes out, and has spent the majority of their time, home studying? Are they to blame for the repercussions, of not managing their mental health issues, when out in public, and respond to a crowd, who is responsible then, when someone feels as though they are forced to explain themselves, whos behavior is responsible for whos?
When you’re not feeling well, its not always necessary to explain why, or how you go sick, whats more important is doing your best to stay well. Its true that once people get the reaction that they want from you, they feel at peace. Don’t expect to be understood or to receive compassions from others when you are not doing well in life or not feeling well, rarely when others are not feeling well do they have an ability to happy for others, its not all about you. Sharing your experiences in life, should not be for the purposes to articulate how decisions are made, whether or not you are apart of those decision making processes. It is more likely that upon sharing your experiences in life, when drunk or under the influence that others will be in disbelief of anything you say now, with regards to your past, deem everything you say as an admission of guilt, and that you knowingly shared in the past to become well known, and by your sharing had influence on the decision making processes of others, or bad decision making. When trying to express the mental health issues that followed, your tweeting in 2012, it is likely they will not remember what you did not share, which was finishing paralegal school after rehab 2011, and being treated for depression via TMS, if no one understands why you were the way you were when you were not well, then they will not be understanding of you now and expect the same, leave up only your bad moments for study to see what happens, and as experiment to blame you for anything negative occurring following you sharing insights when not doing well in life. That’s the purpose for knocking someone down when they are up, to see what they have to say when they are down, and then blaming them for anything they say when theyre down, if read by others or if influences the environment around them. For some their primary purpose in life, is not to help those they think are of harm to others, and so long as they can can cast others out as being ill or mentally ill, the better they feel and in the right for hurting your ability to fix your image, present yourself as well, making it easier for you to be accepted as mentally ill, how they see you, as failure how they see you, or as embarrassment. Its no ones responsibility when a friend dies, it is the friends responsibility to get help, and the greater understanding we have of environmental factors affecting mental health the better.
You can only make so many jokes and be forgiven before the jokes become about you and your life, with the trade comes a territory, everyone wanting to be on top, the smarter sounding one, with a better vantage point, a more enlightening point of view, upon appearances by you. That’s usually to deflect attentions away from feeling sorry for you, and create wellness by encouraging others to not take you seriously in life, or your sobriety and good time earned. I have been to rehab twice, once in 2007 and once in 2011, both times for trying cocaine and relapsing on cocaine. What you cannot hide, will show up in your grades, underachieving in life, it’s a pretty dramatic difference, going from Deans List to near Academic Probation and 3rd in your Class to Ds. #dontdodrugs – You cannot maintain positive momentum in life, no matter how much good time you’ve earned, by later drinking or doing drugs thinking its okay, because you are healed, and feel invincible to illness, as you get older, it becomes more and more difficult to recover from those injuries to self, and injuries to your image, while placed in recovery or punished for behaviorally appearing unkempt or not sound of mind, stuck in the past. If it makes any difference it was encouraged by my brother to write about how I was affected by the case growing up, to be honest we were playing SuperNintendo Donkey Kong throughout the whole Civil Trial, so not that affected, swimming and playing Billiards. My family gets very disappointed in me if I drink or relapse, and they are not afraid to criticize me to my face, don’t expect anyone to baby you when you are not well, its everyones responsibility when they are not well to get well, don’t feel sorry for yourself, whenever you have problems in life, and need help, sometimes others will tell you you brought this upon yourself, before ever realizing exactly what they meant. When you are experiencing bipolar its easy to think the wrong things, and in thinking the wrong things play victim or blame others, that’s a natural reaction to feeling instability, just be patient, everything passes, so long as you stay positive, your outlook in life, no matter how daunting the task, will never change, always have good intentions in life, its your daily intentions that matter, do not seek approval from others to receive love, and do not seek to be known in order to be accepted, everything in small doses, including socialization, you cannot expect to bring people together over illness, and especially not over you when you achieve well, people will always pick and choose who to like, based upon how they make them feel, that’s a choice who to listen to and admire, don’t become frustrated because of your lack of influence upon others to make change happen, and do a better job of showing up and taking on more responsibilities as you get well, to help inspire positive change in others, don’t expect to be credited, its likely your direction in life will always be questioned by others, by when you lose focus, fog, become unstable, or lose momentum.
The quickest way to disempowerment is through the expression of displeasure or frustration, that’s to take your power away by making you look gay or with obsession for the replication of the behaviors of others upon exposure. By viewing you others will always seek to illustrate how they have influenced you or changed you to credit themselves for your dispositions in life, failures, or frustrations, prove to what extent and by what set of circumstances you have self harmed. If its not your life, and its not your struggle than don’t disempower those who have not yet achieved success or are still struggling, not all who struggle deserve to struggle in life, not by experiences in life, losses, or through the sense of empowerment, being able to be someone you love, treat you as lesser than, by reading how you speak to those you love, to see how you respond differently in professional relationships, how you have changed or whether you discriminate or hold negative judgments of others. There will never come a time when it is okay to make fun of others, or by their experiences in life, recreate, as though they have publicly shared those stories in public, and then use those experiences to similarly hurt them so if told, stories begin to match up, how similarly harmed, and in what ways you have been harmed. If you do not appear as the victim, or deemed at fault, then you get judged in the negative and the other viewed as the victim no matter how many harms you have suffered, why its best not to hook up, and be dumped, or hook up and be made fun of. Yes there is a double standard when it comes to making friends and hooking up, if you allow people to continue to make you look stupid then they will. Rise above, make love not war. Stop fighting peoples disabilities in life, and use the discomforts of others to your advantage to make them look like, feel like, or change or adapt to your judgements of them if in the negative. Don’t be provocative toward those who are uptight, and don’t heckle those who are nothing like. Everyone thinks that because they know you they are entitled to go through your computer and your things, if youre not of professional standing you have no right to help yourselves by going through my private spaces to help yourselves when help has been provided online. That’s not a right, to view someone in private, you think deserves of being drained. #stopselfharm - This is not a group project.
When you don’t hear from others or see them, its easy to assume the worst about them, pick apart their weaknesses in life, or assume that because they are not present, or showing their face in public, that they are experiencing humility, or acknowledgement of their behaviors online past, as unacceptable, unprofessional, given their upbringing and education. Its usually people of high standing in life, that do not care what others think, its usually people who have confidence and high self-esteems, that do not allow others to use them, not only seeing above, but also, being a wise decision maker, not easily conversing with others, with expectation of time being requested of them, in exchange for favors in regards to their wellness. As you come to believe in yourself, realizing your own potential, you will see yourself of value, and when that occurs, do a better job of representing yourself, when youre young you have the time and energy, not yet jaded, few bad experiences in life, and able to be positive around others, will full trust in yourself, that you are strong, and no one can hurt you. Sometimes you get hurt along the way, the stronger you appear, thinking you have not yet been affected by the same harsh realities as others. Your powers get taken away as soon as you get imitated in life, your disposition, to add to the successes of others, that’s seeing how you are as a result of your experiences in life, and thinking that you are acting or with full awareness of the negative judgments around, its okay to live life fearlessly, don’t be too hard on those who do. Don’t make your nightmare the nightmare of others, and don’t haunt others, by information you acquire, without their permissions in life, to see how they respond, if people are taken from their lives by people they know, or if unapproved of relationships occur, because they think that your opportunities in life are plentiful, to cast you out as jealous, vindictive, or someone who has moved on, to get you to respond like an offender, if they make you jealous, or take from you, that’s wrong. I may have grown up around people in life, but that doesn’t mean I understand their problems in life, or were close to them enough to understand the gravity of circumstances. You choose your surroundings, who youre close to, but you cannot trust those who investigate your private spaces, to determine your wrongs in life, to empower themselves. At some point you have to allow others to move forward, you cannot trust everyone. #stopsuicide – The trend is getting you to believe something has occurred to make you sick, then see how you respond thinking they are you, or have taken from you, something or someone of value to you, that is replaying out a course in the past, as publicly known to all.
The more unhappy you are the worse off you become. Those who are deemed not to be apart of, or who become unsuccessful are categorized as people who have either made mistakes they cannot overcome, or lack the foresight to be a good decision maker now. Not all who overcome hardships in life, are at fault for their own shortcomings, some of us are punished to graver extents, when we do not see well or achieve well, if you don’t know what the issue is, don’t be quick to judge those who are not doing well in life, you never know for what reasons others are unhappy. We used to think that unhappiness or displeasures in life, were a reflection of people expressing themselves, and nothing to do with who was in front of them, that’s how we were raised to think, to be accepting of people, no matter how unhappy they are, to accept that those feelings expressed were not a result of anything about us, or anything that we were doing wrong in life. If you maintain a positive outlook in life, all the more power to you, sometimes we become so positive that we overlook negativity, almost to a fault, only later on looking back do we see how we were being judged by others, as having to do with this, this, or that. If people know your story, they will use portions of your story, to interpret your present discussions as born from those experiences in life, and used as inference to what is meant by present discussions. The more experiences that can be added to you life, and the more you give power to previous experiences, the more likely you will become disempowered from the sharing of your experiences, and the more empowered others will feel, as they watch changes to the course of discussion, feeling on point the more they can relate, and the more they know about you, able to trigger similar discussions in the future, by knowing you, and having that ability to influence you, or affect how you feel emotionally, stir feelings within you. When you are present online, expect interpretations of you to be varied, based upon what people know about you, no matter what condition you are in, will judge you the same in the negative, there is plenty of opportunity to meet people in the future and build new relationships however irrespective of those past who may not be accepting of you now, whether your condition has improved or not. Common threads of animosity, circulate around jealously and proving whether people are gay, face adversity, carry guilt, have acceptance issues, and whether they have rejection issues. Any way people can compare you to others, to prove reasons for your disabilities in life, or self-esteem issues, the better they feel, thinking you are a composite of the successes of others, not a product of your own good decision making. Its better to become successful without being known, than to have any influence upon others along the course of your recovery, its likely that as soon as you get better, no one will similarly credit you for your wellness. Theres no way, to stop bullying, apathy at best is the solution to bullying. Just as your motives are called into question for being successful or being well liked, you will always be attributed for your failures in life, as being reason for continued success now, discredited.
Deleted all my apps. Taking a break from social media, to focus on work, until I feel well again, having difficulty moving forward, and being social, without being misunderstood. The less I try to entertain others negative judgments of me, the better off I’ll be. Share only when well.
No one will ever see you as a victim, when you have every opportunity made available to you, any confrontations past, get used to prove whether you are confrontational now, they will do anything to provoke you, or to threaten you, your esteems, to prove you are not a victim, and that you are experiencing mental illness as a result of your own faults in life, those are people you cannot prove wrong. You cannot reverse a negative judgment of you, once it gets shared, whether as a joke, or to be funny, or to provoke reaction, that is the purposes for illustrating what hurts you, and what brings out your worst characteristics, whether you now feel inferior to others, and how you respond when your not doing well, not doing your best, and have struggled in life, people will be nice so long as you are around, and once you move on, less controlling of you, its okay to be on your own, and to receive help until you are able to stay well on your own, you cannot resolve your problems on your own, if no advice can make you feel better, than its you that needs to change your behavior in life, and do your best to be perfect here forward, its unfortunate, that you cannot take chances in life, given time to figure out life, past punishments, the gift of choice and being experimental with your time, having time available to you, not being put in a rush, is given to those who take good care of themselves and others, considered a good person, those are people able to move forward in life. You cannot compare those who during the course of their studies complete assignments, to those who in reaction to the times, want to figure out whats going on, or why people are getting sick, that’s not a personal vendetta or because one is being defensive, or thinks is related to how others are feeling around them, once you are expected to be a working professional, you have to be yourself, even if you get hurt along the way, are expected to be independent of others, and whether they keep retaliating on you, to get you to empathize with others they’ve heard from you discuss why you got suicidal in the past, they will not cease to continue making you feel like those who have been watching you over the years, and will not let you move forward. The more you hurt, or self-harm, the more others let go, they really don’t stop until you are broken, its usually the case that they think you are resilient to negativity and expect you to endure the hardship of negative judgments toward you, as though you have not grown as a person, worked hard, or done your best to work on yourself, those are people not on your team in life, as soon as they can illustrate the purpose for teams in life, by your failures in life, the worse off your life becomes, it doesn’t matter whos in your life, they leave. Don’t make your problems the problem of others to correct, do your best to get help and don’t self-harm = loss.
Until you are well, or appear well, appear in front of others, otherwise work from home, and continue to make progress in life. Sometimes its by what youre doing in life, others feel affected by, as though they have a stake, or as though their lives are the only lives that matter at risk of being harmed, that’s not lying to public or concealing information that would otherwise jeopardize ones own freedoms in life, usually when we go backwards that’s to correct a problem, either that one has experienced in life as while interacting with others, or even a problem that others have with them, its not trying to read what others are thinking or were thinking past, its moving forward with clarity, or even with fear, no matter how disabled you become left to your own devices, fogged, or disillusioned, no matter how new you are to any profession, or group of people, you should not be afraid of what people think, once you instill negatives into your concept of reality, this affects how you interact with others, as trying to see (for fun) if they have intruded upon the same spaces as they have in life, the more the merrier, that’s an ill suited type of comradere, that protects those who violate spaces thinking that its okay to violate the privacy of others, and justify those harms by further declaring others as mentally ill, deserving, or not too a victim, don’t judge a person by their past, or previous associations in life, think people think they are famous before they become well known, judgmental toward others, hold yourself to high standards, its my life too. Everyone has to live through their mistakes in life, no failures in life are easy to overcome, if you know what triggers mental illness in others, to attack, take away, dismantle, misplace, and disorganize their viewpoints in life, by interjecting your fears through them, then what is gained by who gets lost, trying to figure others out in life, and lose track of their own lives, stay goal oriented.
Its not necessary for everyone to have faith in order for you to believe in yourself and move forward in life, all scared straight jokes aside, all offender jokes aside, all comparisons aside, all alikeness jokes aside, all infamy jokes aside, all size jokes aside, all gay jokes aside, all life philosophy jokes aside, all autism jokes aside, all abstract interpretation jokes aside, everyone takes things personally these days, and reads everything as if in defense of themselves and their beliefs, situate you until you conform to their ideologies of someone to be hated, or deserving of hate, and continue to question whether by what you know now, you thought then, and by what you think they thought then, they think now, and the extent to which you were able to achieve in spite of those negative judgments of you, and how many negative judgments were had of you, and how many people treated you as though you were stupid, and how much of that was deserved until you looked like how they think you look if you were designated in the wrong, people will only judge you by bad photos in life, and by bad moments in life, think you were like that your whole life, and equate everything leading up to those poor performances in life as a product of your poor decision making, it is true we are left with choices in life, and by process of elimination treated always compared to those who are doing well in life, and if next to appear to look better than, test to see how you appear among others worse off to see if you look or appear better, always crediting your wellness to whos around you, not crediting you for your own wellness as being a good decision maker, able to function and achieve in life on your own, everyone wants to make someone look desperate, everyone wants to see how people are in private, everyone wants to read into the lives of others, to see if how they appear on the outside is how they appear on the inside, credit wellness to others, treat people like followers or imitations of others who are doing well, and not credit one for their own personality in life and choices in life and exposures, once you treat someone as second hand not only do you devalue their sense of purpose in life, credited for their originality and hard work, people will always test those they do not trust, who they do not connect with often, have no bond with, to see how they respond when desperate, because they think they are better than and think it funny if everyone thinks less off them, and by rumor see how many rumors it takes until you become sick or mentally ill, and experience dysfunction in life, and credit you to the misfortunes of others, as though you were a poor decision maker, or bad influence onto others.
Sometimes in the heat of emotion, people say or do things disfavorable to their own best interests, you cannot resolve a problem, by hurting oneself, or the feelings of others. That’s not the best route moving forward, learn to let go, and not take things personally, as directed toward you, how you self-identify, how others identify you, and for what reasons others identify you in the negative or as deviant from the norm. Some people are human, and some people are machines, whether living for positive purposes in life, their drives and motivations in life may be accelerated by different motivations and drives in life than those around them. For some making fun of people to their face, is considered funny, not all deserve to be made fun of to their face. Not everything is about you, so long as you assume that everything is about you, you become victim to your own thoughts and worries fearful of what people think of you, treated as a let down, a disappointment, or contributor to mental health issues, if you do not maintain steady ground, even tempered, balanced, and positive. Its those who are doing nothing to help you only themselves, who are disinterested with what happens to you in your life, so long as it does not affect them. Its not necessary to have people on board in life, or to gather attentions in life to causes or to have purpose in life, be recognized, you either help stop violence or don’t speak to it, you either help prevent harms from occurring, or don’t speak to it, and if you are punished because others are not in agreement with anything that you have to say, well that’s on them, not your responsibility to figure out what you have done or why you are not liked, that’s others passing negative judgment upon you, looking for guilt, and causing you illness, until a guilty reaction is received, mental health issues arise, or treat you as though you dont already feel bad yourself, just to see if you care. You only have one life to live, its not necessary to put yourself down in life, based upon the stories of others you’ve been exposed to, what illnesses they have overcome, it’s a shame that one who struggles in life, and has struggled in life, is treated as someone who deserves to struggle.
If you want to build a website, you can build a website. If you want to blog, you can blog. If you want to write a book you can write a book. There are so many ways to help make a positive difference, unrelated to harping on the problems themselves, you would think that more people would be supportive, of positive endeavors in life. There’s a lot of sabotage when it comes to building a website, it’s a huge responsibility, to keep up with your material, and review your work as you go, sure you can get feedback from editors, but you have to do the work yourself, no one can help you write. You are constantly having to go back and fix things, how does this sound to me, how will this sound to them, how does this sound now. Its more likely by the causes you support you will be hurt in life, resume tweaked, banner taken down, any shows of support for organizations you care about, to make you look bad. The easier it is for others to make you look bad, sometimes by the words you choose or how you say things, is to get things to the point of not respecting you, thinking less of you, not trusting you, and treating you as unimportant, or not smart, or about yourself. Everyone deserves an opportunity to work, and if you are able to create a job for yourself, those drives and passions in life, to write, and to help others when you are well and able to, not subject to disabilities in life, then allow the sharing of your experiences help to empower others, its not the job of people to punish people or to hurt people, that’s the justice systems job, and if you are so disinterested in with others that you prefer to make their lives more difficult than so be it, not all illness, and not all suicide attempts are by people who have done things wrong in life, don’t create similar circumstances and share stories from my past, to injure my ability to move forward, live your life. Before a project is complete, there are many stages of thinking during the problem solving process, you have to have a positive outlook in life to overcome mental health issues, disability, now negative judgments, alcoholism, addictions, and function as a member of society working. Not all are privileged with jobs in life, its important to be respectful of the jobs that people choose in life, don’t be judgmental toward people just because they are not wealthy, or doing well in life. Wealth is not an indicator of failures in life, or just cause for failures in life, that’s assuming privileges in life were abused, if a poor condition occurs, or maybe that’s just people who love you being hard on you, or being hard on oneself to achieve better in life.
The Weekend is here! What to do what to do, keep busy? Relax? Exercise? Watch a Movie? Shop? Or (D) All of the Above? All of the above. It seems like the more will fill our plates with responsibilities, the more we procrastinate getting things done, if youre a careful planner, you write things down as you go, and have an agenda, not all are that organized when it comes to accomplishing their goals in life. Have a system and stick to it.
The Following Reminders have been suggested by trueyoulifestyle.com:
Why is keeping a “to-do list” important? Its hard to keep track of everything your doing, the better you feel the more you want to get done, and sometimes theres more to get done than hours in a day, that’s okay, youre not alone, if your one of those people more power to you. If you are someone who tries to accomplish at least one thing important each day for a few hours, new to recovery, the workforce, or just returning from leave, pace yourself.
“Get up early?” Why is getting up early important? The longer you sleep in and put off your day, the harder it becomes to start your day, hours wasted lying in bed, watching tv. Solution: If youre gonna stay in bed all morning be productive, there are phones and tablets now with the internet, which is a plus and a minus when it comes to getting out of bed in the morning, you can actually work from bed, that’s the scary part. Reading always puts me in a good mood, feeling accomplished, it settles me mentally, just like running does, keeps my mind calm. If you are someone who doesn’t feel good unless you are doing something that makes you feel good, than make sure to free up time for activities you love, whether it be blogging, and do so during the hours when your full attention is not required of you, save your energy for work always.
“Get Ready Straight Away?” That doesn’t mean just shower, is it time for the whole shebang yet? Perfume and after shave scents, I think we’ve phased out of the expectation that professionals or wealthy individuals are supposed to smell the part. Everyones pretty much toned it down in that department, fresher scents are preferred, like just getting out of the shower, fresh.
“Don’t Start Something You Know Will Waste Your Time?” Life is not short, sometimes too long, and you’ll only feel bad about yourself, if youre doing something youre not supposed to be doing, ever get that feeling? As soon as someone tells you not to do something, and you do so, like drinking in sobriety or shopping on a tight budget, or cramming before an exam? The better you prioritize yourself, the less time you waste, the more energy youll have to excel in life.
“Keep Your Space Tidy” Its not just for looks, the better put together you look, the better you perform, we are not all being watched at the same time, that’s impossible, but in case someone is watching, their judgment of you should matter, even if you are not judging yourself comfortable in your space the way it is, presentation does matter, the less disorganized you look, the better treated you will be in life, disorganization is a sign of mental health issues, inability to keep up with chores. Stay organized. It shouldn’t matter what meds you are on, keep up with your chores, remember where things are, and if anything gets lost, don’t panic, sometimes its hard to keep up with your personal inventory, never have fear of losses in life. Ive been told if money can replace it, its not a problem, so be it, learn to let things go.
Its easy to listen to criticisms in your head, sometimes the same criticisms of you replaying over and over again, whether that’s a current delusion of something past you recall being said to you, or seeing the past in a negative light, its up to you to stay positive. There will always be room for misunderstanding as you recall your past, and when people go through your things to be critical of you, its because they think you need to be put in your place or corrected, always stay in tune with your surroundings, don’t draw attentions to yourself, because your having an emotional day, going through a difficult time, or just don’t feel like talking to anyone. Its when youre in a negative place, that others will be hostile towards you, that’s to test your limits in life, once someone sees you looking down in the dumps or negative, that’s how you will be treated as though you are gone or have lost faith, don’t have positive purpose in life, or have lost your positive vision in life. Not all people are the same, you have to be able to get yourself out of a bad place in life, if you want to better your life, the more you self harm, drink, or relapse on drugs or alcohol, the more ammunition you give to others to shame you, blame you, or hurt you with their words, subject yourself to revictimization, ridicule, or taunts. Remember your best years. Its not moments in life that break us, it’s the power you give to those moments in time, or to the things that people say, to you directed toward you or not. In the past, when not knowing others were watching me, its understandable that others would play with my audience to see if I reacted to others in tune with others sense of humor, as you get older, you wonder why, it becomes clear that even at your best no one takes you seriously, you wonder how much dirt about you is being circulated and why. Its common for people to want you to think that you are bigger than yourself, or think you are someone you are not, allow those disagreements in perspective to occur, they will always wonder if you knew what people were calling you behind your back whether you would agree if in their shoes, and that’s how you lose your sense of self and purpose in life, hearing arguments directed toward you and away from those who have been experimental with your identity, or people around you. They will always feel like the bigger person if they can identify to others what the issue is about you, to feel smarter than you, or to make you look small, or at fault for your own misfortunes or failures in life. Its really not about you at that point, the more selfish you become protecting your own interests or wondering about whys, the more offense you take to commentary present and past, that’s not the solution, and only feeds into the purpose of others to put you down in life.
The whole purpose of learning is to be able to read, understand, and be able to speak well. That’s the primary purpose of education. So to blog on Twitter and tell jokes was a far cry from the purposes for my legal education, which was to write. Whenever you start a project before its finished, youre likely to be met with dissatisfaction, thinking things could be better, or your condition presently is not well suited to represent a project of that caliber. Whenever you do things with care that care is shown. Others may try to dismantle your privileges and successes in life, undermine you or your abilities to affect your confidence in life, but you have to keep going. Whether or not you can relate to others, whether or not you think things are about you, maintain steady ground, in what is your health, allow others to be judgmental towards you, especially after viewing how you are in private, as expressing oneself, compared to how you share in public, versus how you share in school. They will be looking for the same confidences in life, and be looking to read through you to determine where you are at presently, to figure out what is wrong with you. Writing online is not easy, you have to remember a lot, remember conversations, remember your past interactions, remember your life, remember what you’ve written in your phone, remember what you’ve written in your computer, remember what you’ve written for a book, remember what you’ve written for quotes, and remember what you’ve written on your blogs. Its important to keep separate tabs of the work you create and what you consider to be your finished and final product. Its not in your best interests to share before you have finished working on something, whether it’s a book, or a website, or blog, even a newsfeed, its important to be as complete as possible. You will always be judged by how dense the information you provide is, whether you are detailed and clear, make sense.
The less you share about your past the better, and less likely your past will be recreated presently, that’s usually to do you a disservice in life. As soon as you share your philosophies in life, people think you have always thought that way, and that’s how you achieved success, not taking into account, that you’ve adapted overtime to how you’ve been treated by others. People will assume that if you sound well now, that you look well, or if you look well, that youre doing well in life, that’s not always the case, sometimes, we struggle to keep up with appearances in life, that’s a normal process of aging. You can’t reverse your years, through exercise or proper diet, if you don’t take good care of yourself, eventually the years you did not excel in life or achieve to the minimum standards of acceptance by others, catches up you. Everything comes earned in life, nothing given to you, you have to work for acceptances in life, and you have to work hard to achieve your goals in life, don’t let what other people think, affect the decisions you make for yourself, and for those around you. Just because youre not doing well in life, doesn’t mean that there is something wrong with you, everyone struggles with their health, its not a unique experience to have a bad day. We all make bad decisions from time to time, when left to our own devices, your computer is your right to privacy, your phone is your right to privacy, your accounts are your right to privacy, no one has the right or privilege to go through your things to make decisions about you without your permission in life. There never comes a time, when its important to disclose personal information about yourself to others upon being asked, if its none of their business, its usually the case that your past will be used to hurt you, and affect your present and future ability to achieve in life. No apologies necessary, especially if going backwards only makes things worse, there is no sense in further empowering those who think less of you, by bringing yourself or others down in life, not achieve, you can do your best, and still not achieve the same level of wellness in life ever again, and that’s just something you’ll have to accept, about being mistreated in life, or punished by others because they were not accepting of your condition, at the time, they knew you.
Its important to care and contribute to organizations and or causes that provide support and assistance to those in need. How you choose to support others is your choice, whether through organizations or on your own provide a service to others, either as an influencer, a voice of reason, or positive outlet, that’s your choice. No one can drag you into believing in anything you yourself do not feel is important or a pressing issue, some of us are ahead of our time, not always in a good way, some too pessimistic to think that change can occur, and the means by which we seek change favorable to the best interests of all. How anyone arrives to well after trauma, is different for everyone, its your life, you choose how to cope best with your own life circumstances, the better able you are at coping with events occurring in your life, the better suited you’ll be to assist others when coping. Some by experience know how to help others, some even trained professionally to assist others during times of need. You have to be doing well in life, to be of service to others, its hard to help others, when you have not reached a point of stability in your life, so long as you are doing everything you are supposed to be doing, we hope that things will pan out for you in life, and if you can help others achieve the same confidences in life, well then all the more better, until then we are usually required to work on ourselves, encouraged to do so, so that we may be of service to others, that goes for people in recovery, motivated to help themselves so that they can help others, those are the primary cornerstones of being able to provide assistance to others in recovery from addiction and alcoholism. Sometimes you have to go through extreme lengths to get well, even when you think youre at your best, you can still fall apart, although your experiences in life may empower others to do well achieve better in life, or believe in themselves that much more, don’t allow your failures in life to minimize your successes in life, just as much as the health of those around you matters, so does your own health, if you are not well it becomes impossible for others to feel well about you, trust you, relate to you, or help you, don’t be stubborn, recognize when you are not present, and do a better job of conforming to standards of normalcy around you, living up to negative expectations of you only does you a disservice in life, to ever try to compensate for any quality your deficient in by highlighting another skill in life you have yet peaked in professionally. Once you are deemed not well, everything about you gets called in question, how you live your life, what meds you take, your sleep cycle, where you work, who your friends with, who you date, whats in your phone, whats in your computer, how far along you are in your dissertation, how long it took you to finish your masters, you get judged ultimately by the length of time you are able to stay well, and any evidence that suggests inability or illness, gets used to justify discriminating you now, or holding reservations about you. Choose wellness, and surround yourself with people who believe in you. The longer you stay well, the more opportunities become available to you in life, why people stay sober. #endaddiction … Addiction is not just about drug use, any mind altering substance used to compensate for an unwanted emotion, or discomfort, is considered a cause for debilitation of ones condition, co-dependency does no better job of healing the mind of physical attachments, you go through many withdrawals in life while in recovery, recovery from trauma is not the same as recovery from addiction, and if you are experiencing pain because you are in withdrawal from things that made you feel good, then you will be judged as being dependent on others or substances to make you feel good, and treated as a user, punished. Be independent. You are not required to lean on others in times of need, there are professionals to assist you, in the confidentiality of their work spaces, if no one respects you, it becomes impossible to provide the same confidences to others, treated as paranoid, unimportant.