Being Positive in Spite of Your Differences
By: Leslie Fischman
Being positive requires to not only respect the differences that others have with you but also see the positive in yourself, in spite of those differences with you. Sometimes you can’t stay positive and with the help of others are able to see better and build a new you. How can you see things better when you yourself don’t feel well about yourself. Well that takes time. You have to see better and be clear and open minded in order to make good decisions for yourself moving forward. Sometimes this comes easily to us, and sometimes it is difficult for us to see past ourselves. Making money isn’t everything, sometimes you have to be happy in order to be successful and do well in life. Life’s not about being well known, or being respected, if we constantly search for respect we’ll never get it. If all we want is money, then we may have trouble finding other things in life, such as love. It’s what you set your mind to, you get in life, and receive. It’s what you set your mind to, that things turn out in a positive direction for you, or things end up worse off. Its all about correcting bad behaviors, and building new habits so that we can do better as a whole.
I have been writing online for a few years now, but have not started making money yet. I just started doing research on how to build a blog and earn a living as a writer. Going to a penguin webinar today on fantasy writing. I think I invested a lot of time and energy on my website, but have not spent an equal amount of time worrying about how I was going to achieve a living, and instead have yet to achieve one. It all takes time. Your health comes first. When you are doing well then everything around you will start to get well. With help from friends anything is possible. Starting to do research on buildyourownblog.net and problogger.com. That’s a start.
Building Sources of Inspiration
You can’t write when nervous, or at any top of discomfort, makes it difficult to express oneself, like a headache, out of tune, and out of touch with reality, broken. Don’t allow yourself to become unrelateable by succumbing to the weak thoughts of others about you and your thoughts, that’s called being defensive, toward your own thoughts, and causing your own head to hurt thinking about the possibilities of the thoughts of others toward you, empower others to feel better than you, some call this a gift. It’s not considered hypocritical to live a life, and then not lead a life in which one is lived, everyone is responsible for living their own lives as best they can, with or without fans, and with or without accompaniment, trust, admiration, or support. It’s everyones responsibility to be independent not just hear what they want to hear, but accept criticisms along the way, we do not know everything, and our positions in life cannot be taken from us, as influenced by, or weakened by the good traits of others, made to appear less than or not as professional as others, and then think less of ourselves as a result, by comparison. Comparison is never the solution to ones problems, that’s not how to operate by influence poor influence in defense to ones best interests communicate to the weaknesses of others, to appear stronger than or to see if qualities existing exist and then play a blind eye to the problems of others to make appear as equivalent to circumstances treat people like they are machines, robots, or invincible, that’s not how suicide occurs, suicide occurs when someone who is in conflict with anothers, then self-harms, and continues to self-harm over a prolonged period of time in disillusionment, give up, that was my 2009, the times have changed, and are not the same now, as they were in 2009. You cannot justify for what reasons, people commit suicide and why so long as they are able to overcome those circumstances, during periods of recovery support them, never raise expectations so high as to leave people out to see if suicide occurs, that’s called dismembering a healthy situation, a stance, a creating a different stance with someones positive purpose, to dissuade others from connecting with someone. Whenever you share an idea with someone, and then take on the challenge of bettering yourself, to enable yourself to have in life, your have should not equal the misgivings of others, and benefit should not run to the benefited, whether deserved or not of discrimination as though known, and for what reasons, as though known, without fame coming up, be treated as though without class. That’s called discrimination, when to continue to steal ideas from someone, who pitches an idea after the fact, to make them appear as needy or make them appear as not apart of, or to make someone feel less than or incapable, that’s taking your profession out on the profession of others while receiving a benefit.
Who You Communicate With by #lesliefischman
Who you communicate with matters, and where you communicate matters too. It’s important to keep communications separate not just for privacy reasons, but because its easy to get taken advantage of when those private spaces, get picked apart by others. In order to be an open book, there’s a certain way to communicate in which the listener not only remembers what you are saying, but also to ensure that you are heard. Writing is not like public speaking, theres no memorization. Only one-way forward when it comes to writing. At least that’s how I write. The secret to being known, is to know yourself. If you want to make a good impression upon others, then its time to start loving yourself. Loving yourself, is not about knowing everything, or being better than. It’s more about how you articulate yourself, through communications and to whom those communications are shared, in turn affect how you feel. For many years I have struggled communicating my thoughts and emotions, online. It has not been an easy journey to self-discovery. But you do your best. Along the way its easy for miscommunications to take place as directed toward them, or for the purposes of generating a response. The best writing is fresh, unscripted, and without intentions. When your intentions come into play, that’s when your words get thrown apart or misused, and led astray. The key to good communication is sound decision-making, we are not all together perfect, but we don’t have to sound perfect either.
Being Needy by #lesliefischman
Being needy is not necessarily a bad thing, it can get you caught up in a string of emotions, leaving you feeling empty and drained. Don’t wait on others to come to you in life, you have to create your own opportunities for yourself in life. You cannot rely on others for self-esteem, thats not how to make yourself feel better when you are not feeling well, thats how you get sick, when you attach when you are not feeling well, get your hopes up then get let down in life. From the inside looking out, its hard to say much, sometimes when you are not being well received or if you feel misunderstood. When you are needy you are more likely to develop unhealthy attachments to people, and when if in doing so, can cause self-harm. Don’t rely on others as a pick me up, to make you feel better in life, especially those who are not to be trusted. In healthy living spaces and environments we get the support we need in order to feel whole. In an unhealthy environment, we do not feel well, that can be because of people places or things. Always be patient with others. Its not for you to judge others as not well, based upon their earning capacity or their likeness. If you do not approve of others, its not for you to make happen widespread disapproval of them, thats not a positive purpose for coming forward in life, to cause disruption based upon personal interests.
I used to be a 2 hour runner, and have since stopped and gained weight. Just finished writing a book. How we use our energy in life, is our own personal business. I wrote my book August to May 2018, and still writing. It takes time to put a book together, especially of your best writing, its for no one to judge, respect or not in the past given.
Why I Really Need Microsoft … by #lesliefischman
I really need Microsoft, since my computer was fixed after getting IT online and a virus. I was mad at Bill for awhile, I thought he was responsible for the typos in my Honors Thesis, but realized later, that I must have not been focused enough to think twice about word choices, thought carefully planted for a sick reaction or one that does not complement the tone of the rest of my Honors Thesis. I learned to be very careful with my words from that point on, always seeking second reviews, just in case. Always be mindful of the thoughts and feelings of others, as I have, we do not always mean to insult others, but sometimes we do, and if there is compassion and understanding, then there will be forgiveness. People go through phases in life, sometimes thinking they are great and smart, or better than, or important, but at the end of the day we are all human. Don’t misinterpret the thoughts and feelings of others as directed toward you or about you, thats not how to move forward in life, thinking about others is called obsession. When you obsess over others, you forget your own thoughts, and do not focus as well, why they do not recommend dating within the first year of sobriety. Always fixate not on what gives you pleasure in life, but on what helps you focus and do well in life, that is how to achieve well in life, not by getting what you want, but by giving to the world in a way that what you get back is what you want to see, not what you think is deserved by others to feel or achieve in life, less than. We are all human, we all deserve happiness. There is limited understanding on the concept of forgiveness, based upon my understanding of inner circles, and successful people, there is little understanding of one another, and best understood as themselves not as acting apart of anyones interests. That is in my viewpoint how one becomes successful, by staying well for themselves, and when they are well enough for themselves, they are well enough to be there for others. That is a system, that is not for anyone to judge, the wellness of others.
Procrastination Blues by #lesliefischman
Its hard to stay focused, especially when it comes to meeting deadlines. Its easy to fall off track when you focus your attention on things that dont matter towards achieving your sense of peace and happiness in life. They’re called distractions. Its easy to get distracted when we are unsure of where we are going in life, or what we are doing in life, toward meeting our goals in life. Its important not only to stay focused, but with purpose, and be task oriented toward achieving our goals in life, not just driven for acceptance or for accolade, thats usually not the push that gets us going, but only stifles us in expectation of something positive to come. You have to be positive in order for positive things to happen in your life. When you are happy with yourself, usually everything else falls into place.