(1) Kick the Habit of Being Negative
Negativity is the fastest route to disaster, visualize where you want to be in life, without expecting the worst to occur, the less you fear, the more doors open for you in life. Face the fact that fact that youre not perfect, we all have demons, don’t overexpose yourself, you’re likely to kick yourself in the butt later on for it. No image is perfect, beauty comes from within, the better you feel, doing for yourself things that make you feel good, the less guilty you’ll feel talking to others: diet, exercise, be proud of yourself and who youre becoming.
(2) Less is More
We tend to think that more or something will make us feel better, that’s addiction, not knowing when to stop. Know your limits in life, its not necessary to put icing on the cake, over clarify self to others, be defensive, or share too much about our lives and our problems, when meeting someone new, or talking to someone past. To catch up in life with others, do your best to know and recognize what youre doing well, and be sure to share positive things about yourself to others. How do you want people to know you? What do you want people to know about you? What is necessary to keep private? How to get well, when others know youre not feeling well? Interviews are not the only conversations in life you need to prepare yourself in advance for, its not all about you, be kind and courteous to your audience always, be memorable, inspiring, don’t enable others to fixate on negatives. Always maintain a positive outlook in life, to speak well be confident with your words.
(3) Don’t Complain
If things aren’t going right for you in life, recognize what needs work, without pointing out to others whats going wrong in your life, that’s how to overcome privately whats bothering you, without the added stress of worrying what people think as youre going through something in life. We’ve all been there, lost, in between phases in life, breakups, have faith, the more positive you are about self and others, the better everyone will look and feel. Everything adds up, sometimes being too opinionated, makes you look bad if others think that you think youre smart or know better, never assume that others a flawed whenever a misunderstanding arises, as to interpretation and inference, see the good in others.
(4) Stay Active
You can’t expect things to happen for you in life, if youre not in motion, moving forward, or doing things in life, that mirror the person you present yourself as online. The best way to support what is said, by you or by others, is to be a person of your word, not always responding to what negatives are said about you, theres no requirement to prove others wrong in life, if you are doing what you feel is right, its not necessary to waste time and energy proving others wrong, or convincing them you are well, sometimes when trying to garner acceptances from others, we disempower ourselves, empowering the opinions that others hold of us, to control our thoughts and actions, be your own person, take your own lead in life, don’t be led or misled by your worries, or the worries that others hold of you.
(5) Know Yourself
How you self-identify sets you free, if being unique is important to you, then be unique. It shouldn’t matter if others think you are an imitation of another, playing off the identities of others, or trying to be like someone youre not, that’s based upon looking at you, and looking at whos around you, and comparing your looks to others. People will always assume that someone who is insecure in life, feels less than, or that someone lacking confidence wishes they were someone else. As you move forward career wise, don’t allow the negative judgments of others to interfere with your progress, your motivations in life will always be questioned, people putting you down as thinking you you think youre bigger than you are. Stay grounded, sometimes those who look happiest as judged as being full of themselves.
(6) Be Patient
You cannot expect change in others if you yourself are incapable of changing. If you want to be treated differently in life, and not put down by others, then figure out why youre not liked by others, it never hurts to accommodate the interests of your biggest critics in life. Don’t try to fix what is not broken, sometimes while anticipating the worst, we wait for things to get worse before they get better to make changes in our lives. It takes a lot of courage to take the initiative in life, to be different, comfortable with yourself, even if you don’t fit the mold of what is beautiful or acceptable, if you can adjust to the changes that others go through in life, have faith that they will similarly adjust to your condition in life.
(7) Stay Positive
Typical advice youre given whenever you say something negative about yourself. Why is it that we are always reprimanded when we think we’re doing well in life, totally focused on ourselves, going in life, made to pause, and give our undivided attentions to others, when we’re doing well in life. Just because you think youre on to something, or going places in life, does not mean that everything will work out for you in the long run, its wonderful that you believe in yourself, its harder to get others to believe in you too, trust the direction your taking in life, toward achieving your goals in life, that they wont nurture, any extended efforts to make change happen in your life, assume there is something wrong or defective about you, if you go the extra the mile toward achieving in life, if youre used to trying really hard to improve upon your best, then ignore criticisms, continue to believe in yourself.
(8) Keep in Touch
Alone time is sometimes necessary to recharge, but not until the point, you go into shock when youre in a crowded room, among others, feel out of place. Recognize you are human, without trying to doctor your feelings too much out loud. Friends will listen, be there to support you through your best and worst moments in life, its hard to take advices from others, when we think we know best, the more you fixate on where youre going in life, the less right now you feel moving forward, don’t isolate, that’s the worst thing you can do for yourself, if youre trying to stay focused, how quickly you’ll let yourself go, when disconnected from others, work hard, but not to the point the wellness of others intimidates you, stay connected, whether you have a job or not, never feel less than in life, because you don’t have it all, life goes on, with or without people in your life, never put all your eggs in one basket, and expect things to work out for the better, that will likely stifle progress in that area of your life, attentions brought away from whats important to you. Its easy to be avoidant under stress, don’t allow yourself to become co-dependent to the needs of others, that’s a surefire way of becoming frozen to your own best interests.
(9) Express Yourself
Its okay to share your feelings, its not important that you shine, even when at your best, sometimes when we least expect it, others pay attention to us, and when trying too hard, no one notices us. Don’t expect others to be nice to you when youre confident and doing well in life, they will always assume the worst, so long as you share online, expect others to treat you like an addict, only share your best, and if your best is not regarded as smart or professional, then don’t allow the acceptances of others, to make you feel bad about yourself. Only share what you are comfortable with writing wise and photo wise. It’s your overall work-product determines what is felt when others see you, theres no statistical advantage to sharing more, or only sharing your best, its all about how you feel when looking at yourself, if others don’t see the same person you see that’s not your problem.
(10) Remind Yourself Youre Worth It
Its not by how many likes you receive in life to know whether you’ve got what it takes to become a working professional, in order to get jobs in life, you need to have had jobs in life. Dating doesn’t work the same way, the more boyfriends you’ve had, the more you will be judged by those losses, devalued, or rejected when not new to love, being new to love means having the capacity to not be picky with expectations, be in the moment present, and able to be unconditional toward others without the other feeling less than or as compared to, more or less put together in life. Any loss of enthusiasm means youre not ready to date, if you are not happy with yourself, it will be hard to make someone else happy or feel good, confident, its not about image, its about feeling fulfilled in life, proud.