012118 Chapter 56: The Recovery Process by Leslie A. Fischman
Everybody Has a Mind of Their Own by Leslie A. Fischman 01-18-18 Everybody has a mind of their own. It’s not up to you to decide how people should think about you or others, never persuade others to hold a negative viewpoint about individuals or groups of individuals in life, as that is holding prejudice toward any group of people or set of individuals within a group. Everybody has a mind of their own meaning, we cannot control the thoughts of others, only our own. What we see best fit is a matter of manifestation of how we see the World, and our position in it. When we feel as though we are wronged we may behave differently. When we feel that others may be wrong to others or toward us, we may behave differently. Always know that you are not your associations in life, and only you can be you in life. Always Focus on What Matters Most by Leslie A. Fischman 01-18-18 Always focus on what maters most, during times of controversy, never assume that everyone knows your whole story but what you share out loud with them about you. That is an assumption, that others can read you, or know what you are thinking, or what’s going on in your head, and in your life at any given moment in time. –Mental illness is a daily struggle, something that must be managed everyday and cared for, its like diabetes, you have to take your medication in order to stay well. Therefore when you are not well, it is difficult for you to be strong and to be there for others and likewise do well. Drugs and alcohol may amplify this disability, and further impede on your progress health wise, recovery time takes time, especially from drugs and alcohol. Recovery is defined by Google as: “a return to a normal state of health, mind, or strength. [or] the action or process of regaining possession or control of something stolen or lost.” This is a loss of a stable mental health condition in place an unstable mental health condition, caused by the use of drugs or alcohol. This lack of stability causes one to question self as well as others, can induce paranoia. Why when in paranoid states and not doing well, its important to refrain from the use of alcohol and drugs. -The well see well, and the well looking at those with mental illness, apply mental illnesses to the well, to figure out what is causing mental illness. That will never change, people will always wonder for what reasons caused the use of drugs and or alcohol, usually its not conspiracy, but pressures upon pressures, that cause mental illness, and eventually turning on oneself, or others, paranoid. Its important when mentally ill to express yourself in a safe space so that does not occur, so that you don’t say anything that causes others to question your stability and ability in life to represent self and others well, to the best of your ability, to do well in life. Reference: https://www.google.com/search?source=hp&ei=945gWu2REs7wjwOXtrCIBQ&q=recovery+definition&oq=recovery+definition&gs_l=psy-ab.3..0l10.480.4754.0.5191.24.15.2.6.6.0.184.1449.11j4.15.0....0...1c.1.64.psy-ab..1.23.1522.0..0i131k1j0i10k1j33i160k1.0.xxT6biRZFPI Friendships Can Never Be Wrecked by Leslie A. Fischman 01-17-18 Friendships can never be wrecked, only mended, by bettering yourself. When one friendship ends another will blossom, never lose faith, and always keep going in life. You cannot go backwards in life, you can only move forwards. “Life is no Nintendo Game” in the wise words of Eminem. –Going backwards only does you harm in life, does not make better situations for self or for others, but only festers wounds. Know you best and be that, don’t compare yourself to others, as that will prevent you from blossoming in life, and being at your best, always do well, to be well, and likewise be kind to others appreciate well, to be well, not be jealous of well to make well. There will always be different types of people, with different mood settings, that will not change we are only human, and like the water within us, we change. Don’t think too much of others, as their problems become your problems, if thought about. You will always be yourself, and no one can change that about you. What you see is what you know, and what you hear is what you think, and what becomes of you is how you become toward self and around others, is a product of your work ethic put toward bettering yourself everyday, that is what will surround you, you have to work for it. Nothing comes easy in life, including having friends, and being around others, that is something you have to earn by good merits to be surrounded by good people, if not there are plenty of people to surround yourself with on social media, that will never change, there will always be systems of support online for those in need, on social media and away from social media, to help us identify whats bothering us. Sometimes its difficult to share out loud what is bothering us, and that’s okay. Its never too late to change, and its never too late to make better self, never trash yourself. Always be kind to yourself, when you are kind to yourself. Others will not trash you or think different of you, when you are well, others will be well around you. Never stop at just okay, and always do your best, perfection is everything in life, when you get good at catching your mistakes in life, you get better at catching the mistakes of others in life, and that’s how you see and become a better person having known them, not all people are perfect, and sometimes we have to see it to believe it, believe in ourselves and in others, what is true and real are our own realities. When we fixate on others, we can become real, if our Worlds feel unreal how TV helps adjust us, to reality. To be cured is to see well the thoughts of self as well as the thoughts of others. To what becomes justified is by traits seen and shown. Never accept blame for the wrongs of others, I’ve said this before, always be true. Its by who you identify with you become, identify with whole people to be real, all knowing. Everybody Has a Mind of Their Own by Leslie A. Fischman 01-18-18 Everybody has a mind of their own. It’s not up to you to decide how people should think about you or others, never persuade others to hold a negative viewpoint about individuals or groups of individuals in life, as that is holding prejudice toward any group of people or set of individuals within a group. Everybody has a mind of their own meaning, we cannot control the thoughts of others, only our own. What we see best fit is a matter of manifestation of how we see the World, and our position in it. When we feel as though we are wronged we may behave differently. When we feel that others may be wrong to others or toward us, we may behave differently. Always know that you are not your associations in life, and only you can be you in life. Negative Opinions Don’t Matter by Leslie A. Fischman 01-17-18 Negative opinions, don’t matter, those are things, words, places and people that get under your skin, make you not think about you, only think about, and cause illness. –What matters is proper maintenance of positive opinion, its not what you do that matters but what you say, interjects a negative opinion or positive opinion toward self, and reflects your belief systems. How you were raised does not matter, its what you do with your life that matters most, importance to accolades, and holding virtues that help not just yourself, but everyone around you. Be well minded in order to have well thoughts, about self and other. Causes for disruption are your own thoughts disturbing your own sense of peace, and whereabouts mentally. When you circle about, make it not collapse on negatives but by focusing on rebuilding off of positive tangents, is how to get from one point to the next without stumbling or falling into a pile of oopses and controversies. –Negativity is when you try to discern whereabouts or causess for controversy [where] exist[ent] then stumble and fall into the pile of negativity, always look out for one another, but not to the point where it bears too much burden upon one or others or many. Think before you speak, crime is crime, and people are people. People are not crimes, and crimes are not people, crimes are caused by criminals, criminally minded, and crimes are caused by those who commit crimes, crimes upon people, places, and people. Some words are considered crimes, such as words directed at people, specifically, and words directed at self that harm, or words directed toward others that harm. Those who get harm are never forgiven nor never forgotten, and will always be remembered, including those who harmed them, that’s a sad truth, to be ignored. Whats most important is to focus on the living, respect the oldest as well as the deceased, and to always do whats best, its by [respect for your elders], we become special [I was thought to have become special by death], unique [no not unique], we are all apart of someone who has passed come before us, that will not change. We are a product of ourselves, not of the deceased, that’s your life as applied. Do not apply your current life to the deceased or compare self to the deceased that is considered sin. Worship things not people. People with many things, why they are worshipped, its by things, not by people. -Guilt gets passed over much like a lawsuit, gets passed on from generation to generation, harships, that’s the law. When you become too involved in the problems of others, you tend to take it personally, don’t take anything in life too personally, including the wrongs of others, on others, and including yourself, do not internalize hate as directed toward self when on others. Do not mimic hate as a representation of self toward others, by sight seen. How people die, is a discussion for medical professionals, not for the commoners to discern or think about, always focus on the living, NEVER play Doctor, that is sin. When you hurt others, you only hurt yourselves, Ive said this before. When you share a lot you become paranoid, because those are your inner workings, keep all inner workings to yourselves, to not be duplicated among yourselves in life. When you get your hand dirty in life, its because you’ve entrapped yourselves in the problems of others, or the thinking about of problems of others, that are not your own, always focus on yourselves not others. Always help one another group by group, not in groups, but person-to-person, connections are made one on one. So its always important to be yourself, why its important to be yourself. The best gift you can give in life, is to be yourself to others, that’s how to avoid trading in yourself, or giving up your identity to another or others, always stick to your roots. You don’t’ talk about victims, that’s disempowering, to empower, let them come to you. You cannot empower vicitms, you can only redirect them to someone more qualified. Likeness or bear minded I don’t look at anyone or them or read any such things or people, I am myself, I bear no identifiable traits of anyone. Whats to know whats to hear whats thought whats said whats felt inklings [are] not true until said don’t go away. To help others, you must be whole. #Sober #Clean What is Racism? By Leslie A. Fischman 01-17-18 What is racism. Racism occurs when you do not like a particular person or group of people, and because of that dislike you either (1) fear (2) taunt (3) belittle (4) hurt (5) threaten (6) injure esteem or (7) put down because one thinks that it predominates because ones beliefs are better than or more sound than the other. That is called racism. When one is discriminated that occurs because based on ones behaviors, use of likeness, they determine that one if like that one is and therefore not to like someone who is characterized or mischaracterized, denominates. To denominate in mass media, occurs when a likeness, is used and portrayed as a kind, so when identified in public is disliked, that is to denominate a particular group or class of individuals as lesser than, and that the predominant view –goal to be seen as greater than. Beliefs are not a race, and to no beliefs can be discriminated, as these are ideas inside of you that cannot be seen outside of you. Therefore racism does not exist as to belief systems, because inwardly you cannot see outwardly beliefs or resentments or fears held toward any groups of people or individuals. –When one is put down, for me for instance, that occurs due to bullying at home, and as a result of bullying at home, that caused failure, and because of failure, that caused loss of esteem, and because of loss of esteem, that caused loss of focus, and because of loss of focus that caused lack of achievement, and because of lack of achievement that caused resentments toward me as not good enough, and because that not hired, because I was not an Attorney and he only hires Attorneys, I was a Housekeeper and Intern ABA Certified Paralegal. Bullying at home, was because of cocaine use in college 2006 for a semester. Recognizing Failures by Leslie A. Fischman 01-16-18 When you recognize your own failures in life, you can fix yourself. Until then you will be lost. Know your weaknesses, and know your errors in life, and regroup. There is always time to regroup in life, and think positively of self and others. What causes a loss, and causes a gain, is a matter of manifestation, what you in your heart think is real, true or not true about others, and upon that you react to others, and to people in your lives. Never take out your failures or unhappinesses out on others, as they are not to blame, never to blame for ones own current hardships. Know that until you are willing to move forward in life, and see best your interests and the best interests of others, then and only then will you be able to move past reasonings or people in your li[fe] who have caused you hardship or illness. Know you best suits in life, and always follow the rules and regulations of others, as well as protocols, how best to respond during crisis conditions, not make ill but make better self and others. That is how to build strong foundations, a willingness to surrender to your own faults in life, and help make better self and others. That is how to rebuild. When you are not doing well, that is not the time to confront or attack others, as you are wrong when you take out your aggression or unhappiness out on others. When your energy is calm, and when your energy is not directed toward others, that is when you will do well in life. When you communicate wrongs of others to build sides that’s when you are wrong, and when your side will not be taken in life. Never turn on people, to whom you confide in, those are people on your team in life. Intent to Communicate by Leslie A. Fischman 01-16-18 Intent to communicate is defined by Google as: “Non-intentional communicative intent is the communication of a message that is automatic and completed without thinking (spontaneous). Intentional communicative intent is the deliberate communication of a message to a person, whether it's via gestures, gaze, or vocalizations.” [1] –Online you have to be very careful what you communicate about self and to others, what you think. It is always a reflection of self what is communicated to and from any one person. Be careful not of what you think but of what you interpret via those communications, formulate your thoughts and response in return. Its important to always have a balanced perspective whenever passing judgment upon others. What you think, see, feel and hear is always a matter of manifestation of self, and a reflection of your safety needs, and the needs of those around you. What you relate to reflects your own needs, and who you relate to affects your needs also and the needs of those around you. What is public safety? Google defines public safety as: “Public Safety refers to the welfare and protection of the general public. It is usually expressed as a governmental responsibility. Most states have departments for public safety. The primary goal of the department is prevention and protection of the public from dangers affecting safety such as crimes or disasters.” [2] Public safety is a learned phenomenon, something that can always be perfected when it comes to oral communications and written communications, how you communicate to others, is how you will be judged, as conservative or not, helpful or not, or considered a problem, exuding problematic behavior, or deemed influential in a bad way, that denotes harm causing agents attracting harm causing agents. Always be respectful of the spaces of others, written and orally in communication, any unwanted communications result in aggravation and loss of sleep, to those whom communications are unwanted. For all wanted communications speak to your local Government officials, like Michael Moore. That is how to make change happen, not by attacking within groups or other groups. Reference: [1] https://www.google.com/search?source=hp&ei=1YJeWtrmCsGU0wKVtbigBA&q=intent+to+communicate+definition&oq=intent+to+communicate+definition&gs_l=psy-ab.3..0i22i10i30k1.900.8959.0.9501.49.37.6.2.2.0.378.3575.26j6j0j1.33.0....0...1c.1.64.psy-ab..8.41.3658.0..0j0i131k1j0i13k1j0i22i30k1j0i13i30k1j33i22i29i30k1.0.XXD85oVWZms [2] https://www.google.com/search?ei=34JeWp7-GsnujwOptqKYAQ&q=public+safety+definition&oq=public+safety+definition&gs_l=psy-ab.3..0l2j0i22i30k1l8.182082.189533.0.189872.56.47.0.4.4.0.252.4449.32j11j1.45.0....0...1c.1.64.psy-ab..23.32.2550.0..0i22i10i30k1j33i22i29i30k1j0i67k1j0i131k1j0i131i67k1.100.pcmV6NVGim
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AuthorLeslie A. Fischman Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 13-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.
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