Feeling good is not all about you ... that’s the hard part, feeling good and making people feel good around you, you cannot please them all. Taking into consideration how others feel sometimes sends you back on track to the right thinking -stepping outside of yourself and thinking about others is not all that bad, don’t be too selfish, less is more, and there’s more to life than perfection.
Based upon what people say things either happen for you in life or don’t happen for you. Don’t let pet peeves get the best of you fighting is not the solution to your problems. Do not engage with bullies it’s by words you empower the wrong people and by your allowances others are enabled to cause harm to you and your well being. Nothing past can remedy what is not going well now, always do your best to focus on the present what you can do for yourself moving forward to live a better life, not make your problems the problems of others.
We all wish we could be the one with all the bells and whistles but that simply isn’t the case some look better than others and on any given day healthier looking or not as healthy looking. Stop comparing yourself to people who are well, that’s not something to rub in someone’s face your wellness that’s not what causes jealousy and if jealousy makes you feel better about yourself then you’re going about wellness in the wrong way and it’s your own fault if you don’t feel well. Get well to do well don’t get well in competition with others for wellness that’s not the way to be well liked.
You just have to stay positive even if things are not going right for you in life not cause disturbance to those who are emotionally well and sound ... you too can achieve a well state of mind if you so choose to see the good in life not by focusing solely on what’s not going well for you in life, fear is contagious much like confidence requires us to be good decision makers so more things go right than wrong.
People either support you in life or don’t support you and for whatever reasons seek to justify that disposition whether things are going well or not place blames, we are all human, no one is perfect for what obvious purposes we care those who do care are never to blame for caring it’s by our cares we are productive members of society, approval ratings are for political figures and public figures who’s job is to influence wellness in others they change to accommodate the times, set examples, and bars for achievement. Not all are good leaders it’s not a natural trait.
I think that everyone took the bullying and stealing too far and that’s okay for whatever purposes good luck is made stay original, sometimes we are made to look stupid be reminded of our well moments and lowest of low moments and those able to move forward are those who are right and for those of in in correct or in need of correction get reminded every so often to be put back in our place, sometimes we deserve to repent and other times we don’t ... if you let them win you only do yourself a disservice in life why they say to prove them wrong but when it’s difficult to do right and others feel poorly then do so with balance not be the provider of guilt, every action has a reaction, including self-esteems.
Control your empathy ... that doesn’t mean don’t care that just means be careful not to take on the emotions of who’s bothering you that defeats the purpose of self-care as influenced by something or someone that gets under your skin. Always do your best to stay positive, and when in doubt rely upon strengths of character for advice not focus on the weaknesses of others, which can lead you astray.