LYS 40
Even if you can’t get what you want in life ... doesn’t necessarily mean try harder at that ... try hard at things you can accomplish in life how to attract positive attentions in life. If you don’t love yourself now when will you stop beating yourself up that’s no way to get from point A to point B only through self-love can one achieve “loving themselves” in a way everyone tells them to “love yourself.” If the directions aren’t clear then think before you self-harm or take matters into your own hands in order to receive love from others you need to love yourself why they tell you to love yourself so that you CAN get what you want or need that is LOVE. If you don’t understand the whys of life it’s okay to ask! #justask Don’t assume anything and you don’t have to figure everything out on your own ... you’d be surprised how much you don’t know NOT EVERYTHING is COMMON KNOWLEDGE. And if you’re someone NOT IN THE KNOW don’t get upset it IS POSSIBLE to become in the know WITH OR WITHOUT PARTICIPATION in CIVIC ACTIVITIES it’s OKAY to keep your distance from things that hurt that’s perfectly normal to avoid issues ... strength doesn’t necessarily mean ABILITY to discuss freely ALL TOPICS. If you don’t understand the whys of life it’s okay to ask! #justask Don’t assume anything and you don’t have to figure everything out on your own ... you’d be surprised how much you don’t know NOT EVERYTHING is COMMON KNOWLEDGE. And if you’re someone NOT IN THE KNOW don’t get upset it IS POSSIBLE to become in the know WITH OR WITHOUT PARTICIPATION in CIVIC ACTIVITIES it’s OKAY to keep your distance from things that hurt that’s perfectly normal to avoid issues ... strength doesn’t necessarily mean ABILITY to discuss freely ALL TOPICS. If you don’t gather yourself in time to present yourself to another you may fall way off base to the point of no return. Know the difference between normal discussions and abnormal discussions. Be careful not to cross any lines. Some of us are hard to love and that’s okay. For whatever reasons you push love away, stop. Not all are the same. So long as you push love away you’ll be getting less of what you want and need. Instead of isolating and feeling lonely don’t feel sorry for yourself, that’s your choice to be alone. It may be hard to get back out there but you won’t know unless you try. When you’re lost it’s easy to pick up bad habits. Loss of sleep, lack of discipline, procrastination, all the while tempted to giving in to addictions. Put your mind back into place. It starts with setting a schedule and sticking it to. When you keep lists of what needs to get done you are more likely to get things done. Dont ever feel out of place in life ... especially if you’re barely in step. Give yourself time to adjust, adjust your settings, adjust your tone to what’s going on around you ... whether or not it’s about you. Chances are you know more than you think you do if you’d just believe in yourself and see the positive ... that includes NOT thinking that everything’s about you and NOT fixating on subjects you know less about and FOCUSING on your good traits and characteristics that DO describe you well NOT who you are NOT. Relationships are hard to maintain not all things were meant to last ... take it with a grain of salt. Less is more when it comes to communications don’t over share. The key to moving forward is not bringing up the past. Quality and having a sense of purpose in life is more important than quantity ie how many friends you have and whether or not you’re in a relationship should not matter nor determine your happiness in life. Always be happy to be you. When you’re not doing right in life ask yourself why and move on without disturbing others with your past or thoughts. When you could be doing better in life ask yourself why without letting other people down or disrupting the progress of others. These are ways to show you care when you’re less than perfect so that others don’t become affected by your problems in life. Continue to grow but at no ones expense blossom. Don’t ever doubt yourself. It’s usually self doubt that interferes with ones ability to achieve in life keeping you from reaching your goals and seeing your dreams come to fruition. Having a small belief in yourself and others can sometimes make all the difference. Life is beautiful ... you don’t get to plan for everything in life but when something good happens enjoy the moment. Why is that we dwell on the bad and while dwelling forget all the good that happens to us in our lives? It’s time to start thinking positive thoughts ... which will hopefully lead to patterns in our lives that produce more happy moments to remember. Learn to weather the storms in life some moments in life occurring from good places ends up leaving us in a bad spot, that’s not your fault. Remind yourself you’re a good person and deserve the best. A new life begins with you therefore not be dependent on outside cues to lead you back to living a life from within. Don’t rely on others to comfort you always most people are concerned with themselves and if you’re in a bad spot don’t want to get hurt while helping you get better. Be grateful for the life that you do have rather than try to get better than what you do have in life ... you can’t always achieve better than by liking better than sometimes that leaves you worse off in life. When your lost and there no room left to run to whom do you turn to in those times of need? Trust the right people and you stay on course ... that’s the main lesson to be learned. Giving in to instant forms of gratification speaks low of you and makes others wish washy towards you ... when you are able to hold your head up high look to who your surrounded by in those moments ... people who care. LYS 41 Believe in yourself ... When everything you attach to is negative those words will be used to attach to negatives pulled from your life to determine what’s causing you negativity even if subtle to rule you out as unfit for the category of leadership ... based upon “principles” of beauty ... those lesser known as fitting characteristics which bind those categorically beautiful get left out of the equation ... deemed not as good as not as pretty as not as smart as not good enough. Who does that affect most the one being defined or the one defining both as they end up not together and wind up better apart. Credit those who pave waves if jealously was never an issue then it’s neither nor now even as instigated to test for past indicators of present resentments. Being yourself whomever you are ... Why would you want to be anyone else but yourself. Be careful not to allow illness or mental health issues to affect your best choice words as judged in the negative if accepting of all judged as a creator of words you self identify with by example on your profile but words you never use puts a negative light on your character ... if late as by purposeful punishment then one does not stand out by comparison to other businesses or providers of similar interests indistinguishable ... who are then the identified leaders in thought processes online or quotes or thought driven prose ... those who have been writing in public the longest. Have the most experience with reactions and heart not well versed for attention ... but to maintain tone whoever need be in control ... if dictated by meds so be it negative undertakings toward me ... not deserved, as though I’m lesser than or the same. It should not matter who was here first at the same token everyone should support one another in all their endeavors to be apart of society and earn a living as a writer. Taking things too far ... If you take things too far I’m sure they’ve set goals for this already is to make you look grose them smarter than as pre-planned and if responded to look like the wrongdoer ... that’s a plan implemented to bring up the past to cause one to appear as the wrongdoer or bully ... do not cause circumstances to occur from years ago because you think a person has not grown or changed and even if on different meds will respond the same in private in private again and then in public already put down so that any amplification of anything privately makes them look bad publicly. That’s create worse circumstances for an individual who is apart of thought positively of and encouraging a negative stance toward as less than deserving of equal treatment in life to be treated as worse off until worse off until one can’t achieve in anticipation of a gossip which is thought to be a fight and in anticipation knock me down as a potential accuser that I’d responded to makes me look like I’m knowingly responding and anticipating the same then play victim properly and make me look like I’m overreacting not offended too. Staying calm is a difficult position to achieve, especially rallied up over the past or nonsense. Learn to go with the flow, nothing happens overnight and if it’s self betterment that you want then there’s no better time than to get started now. Each day you put into getting better the better you’ll feel. Sometimes what you think is happening is not happening ... most of what your thinking after all is all in your head. Don’t get frustrated by thoughts and especially not with people you are always in control of your words and thoughts. How you are interpreted by others ... well that’s up to them not you. Knowing and doing are two different things. Sometimes even if we know best things don’t turn out the way we’d like even with all the best intentions at heart. Don’t be misunderstood in life. Always do your best to be clear. It’s not always obvious who’s at fault you just have to do your best to do and say the right thing what helps best. Love who you are - don’t get caught up being defensive over who you are not. When you love yourself that’s one step toward not allowing what others have to say to affect you but that doesn’t make you invincible we are at best only human. No matter where you end up in life remember where you come from. Stay close to your roots in life. Life’s not all about following fads and trends sometimes with little change and staying just the way we are is the best way toward self-improvement. Eventually you run out of material for whatever reasons that may be know the timing of your life ... when to share when not to share and when to just enjoy what’s around you the weather and the snow. How quickly we forget where we have been ... before repeating old patterns catch ourselves in the progress of making the same mistakes again. Forgive yourself often as sometimes that’s the best medicine to prevent yet another recipe for destruction or disaster. Once you master forgiveness only then will you enable yourself to heal from the traumas that keep you in the past. Move forward. LYS 42 Don’t hold back so much in life you’re likely not to live the life you think you deserve without taking some risks. That doesn’t mean being a spendthrift and wasting money on things that don’t matter but using you time effort energy and money wisely. Think what is it that benefits you most and go from there. Sometimes you’re right and sometimes you’re wrong. Do unto others as you wish to be done to you. It’s always uncomfortable to hear poorly of others unless you know what you’re talking about be careful and veer away from subjects or people you know less about. Be the most positive person in the room don’t speak badly of others it’s bound to make you look worse them look better. “How you treat yourself sets the standard for how others treat you.” ~ No one likes an addict they tend to wear us out too many problems and not enough energy to fix them. We usually enjoy spending time most with those who don’t require positive energy but who give us positive vibes. Be kind to all you never know for what reasons others struggle. Self-care is a must to all relationships fruitful. Ref: http://minuty.tumblr.com/ Addiction is a false belief that more of something will make things better and then filling each void with something else to replace that need ... to undo that addiction. If life were easy we’d have no addictions positive or negative be on a set schedule but then life would be boring. What’s life without a few highs and lows. If you’re not positive you can’t expect others to be positive for you. If it’s love that you want go out and get it. Staying home and complaining won’t do anything to undo “loneliness” problems you created for yourself by avoiding life. A lot about addiction has to do with choosing to live a healthier lifestyle and not wanting to go back to our old ways our alone days. Don’t let negative experiences in life define you. Always rise above self-doubt and stay true to yourself. There will be people who will mistake your kindness for stupidity or kindness for naïveté ... but you know you best. Don’t let others take advantage of your good wit ... and strength. Be the kind of person you want to meet. Be positive, be thankful, be grateful. Everyone loves someone who’s the life of the party with things to talk about, be one of them, what’s stopping you? The only person stopping you from being your social self are insecurities telling you to be a certain way for acceptance to come, accept you as you are now. Be a good person not just because you’re told to but because you genuinely want to make a positive difference in the world. One of the keys to moving forward is to not make a big deal of the past. These are just moments in time and moments should not dictate future outcomes in your life. Half of living life is dealing with consequences ... turn your life around now. Why live with mistakes from the past which you can currently forget simply by doing good things now for yourself what you could not do for yourself then. Recovery is a process, learn from your mistakes and do your best now. Don’t get the wrong idea when someone likes or pays attention to you ask for more than what you get in life. In today’s day and age with harassment it’s not always the case that more means better sometimes more of anything can be overwhelming, taking that into account people only want what benefits them and if you’re not that be sure to be mindful of their space and your own spaces in life, don’t chase people for attentions in life. You are a product of what you know and understand ... it’s okay not to know everything half of life is a learning process - you learn and grow everyday. Everyday you spend challenging yourself is an opportunity for growth and the changes you endure through that positive growth well that’s empowerment. You are too beautiful not to shine. Too pretty, too special. Know your self-worth. If only we could have these conversations with ourselves when we were younger would we be better off today. It’s never too late to start wearing makeup, take the group photo, and participate on Facebook. When is it ever a good time? You are too beautiful not to shine. Too pretty, too special. Know your self-worth. If only we could have these conversations with ourselves when we were younger would we be better off today. It’s never too late to start wearing makeup, take the group photo, and participate on Facebook. When is it ever a good time? It’s probably not a good idea to incorporate someone new into your life when you’re not doing well not fair to them not fair to you to get rejected because you’re not a fit match up in life. Know your place you can’t make everything work sometimes no matter how hard you try. Know your limits in life, what works best for you? To be chased? Well if you’re not happy with who likes you then when is it a good time to pick? The age old question ... who gets to pick and why? Who knows when who is ready? Why go by who’s in the mood to see if you match up? There’s no unwanted pressure to talking it’s when they physically want more is the problem ... learn how to say no and likewise learn from the moments you get rejected in life after having had unwanted experiences in life. They’ll know somethings wrong with you defective but you don’t have to divulge everything. Learn when to back off ... love those you are with but never to the extent that you make others uncomfortable or embarrassed by having known you based upon what others think of you not comfortable talking to you. When someone loves you they will automatically not care what people think and automatically accept you the way you are. *You’re right to express yourself should not interfere with the peace of others ... that is by and what you have to say or how you express those feelings otherwise should not interfere with the relationships of others to make your points in life or through the sharing of how you feel interfere with the peace of mind of others that’s being cognizant of how others feel not trying to change their perspectives of you only seek to be heard anything more is asking too much of others. Boundary maintenance is more to do with what’s under your/their belt that you/they have left to lose than it is about esteems it’s more about what you have/they (have) that others do not have ... and about what’s at stake and what’s left to lose (by association) ... when you respect what others have a seek less of what you don’t have in life (respect) then you too can arrive at a happy place too in life regardless if by comparison you have less (admiration/respect). Why people of high esteem are on their own merits regarded as special with or without the accompaniment of controversies or people to bolster their self-worth or image, do things on your own without the help of others and you’ll be more likely to be accepted as you are on you’re own whether or not you’re apart of someone, with, or without esteem (ie a companion). Keep it positive you never know who’s watching. Always do your best to keep up with appearances and be kind to all. You never know who’s connected to who or who may be affected by what you have to say and no not everyone is watching unless you want them to focus on your private life. If you’re out in public you’re bound to be criticized if not by an understanding compassionate person who cares not all will be that way toward you ... unconditional or not judgmental. Don’t allow criticisms from people you don’t know to easily affect you who’s judgments should matter most are coming from people you know why they tell you to remember where you come from if you start with what they would think and go from there you’ll be sure not to lose yourself in the process of finding yourself ... to avoid getting bombarded by negative judgments or opinions of you if you act out of character or while emotional respond in ways to the surprise of those who don’t know you don’t care ... always be normal never do anything that shocks the public’s consciousness always do your best to blend in ... even if that means to be as expected ... you are responsible for living your life at the end of the day. Don’t allow criticisms from people you don’t know to easily affect you who’s judgments should matter most are coming from people you know why they tell you to remember where you come from if you start with what they would think and go from there you’ll be sure not to lose yourself in the process of finding yourself ... to avoid getting bombarded by negative judgments or opinions of you if you act out of character or while emotional respond in ways to the surprise of those who don’t know you don’t care ... always be normal never do anything that shocks the public’s consciousness always do your best to blend in ... even if that means to be as expected ... you are responsible for living your life at the end of the day. Be a credible person ... watch your words none are taken lightly during pressing times and often it’s those most outspoken when given too much room for experiment ... say the oddest things ... we do mind them. To not be one of those people always stay grounded and be true to yourself and especially to those who care. We don’t all have the same motivations in life ... if we are all the same [human] then we would be looking for the same happinesses in life and the happinesses of others would have no affect on our ability to achieve happiness [with an open mind]. It’s usually those who live with a mind absent of others who wind up unhappy unable to please all alone [they may seem strong and independent] but if we all desire the same or similar consequences of happiness [ie success] then no competition with unhappy people should ever interfere with youre ability to be happy ... or you’re ability to be happy for others. Therefore always think of others even if it means putting the best interests of others before you’re own if your own happiness and success and that of others is what makes you happy. LYS 43 Not all relationships last, live for the moment! When you have your life put together you’ll be more likely to attract what you want and less likely to get hurt in the process. Know your own strength. Don’t set yourself up for heartache getting over invested in anyone when you’re not strong. The right people will be there for you no matter what. Never make the same mistake twice. You’re only hurting yourself when you do. Know when to open up and how to open up -don’t open up to anyone you don’t trust in life. If you get hurt caring for people or while under the care of others don’t blame yourself ... best you can do is rise above, be the bigger person. Be careful not to easily give in to temptations in life you’re bound to get hurt loving the wrong things in life and people. Be fearless in the pursuit of anything that makes your heart sing, never giving up on oneself ... life’s a journey ... what’s meant to be will be. Stop trying to control others or reactions and let life happen at its own pace it’s okay to worry, get let down, or be disappointed in life those are called lessons, learn from it don’t repeat the past and keep moving forward building anew for yourself. Others will be happy for your turnaround. Living in a post world ... It shouldn’t matter what people think but it does especially with sensitivities running high it’s become that much harder to just be yourself, always be careful not to offend anyone with your neediness or questions about life ... we are mostly responsible for ourselves as adults expected to know it all and perform under all types of pressures. Do your best that doesn’t mean if not affected excel when others are down it just means rise to the occasion of need and help others it’s your help and support that’s needed when everyone’s down not your neediness which can seem selfish to only think about yourself at times like these it’s important for everyone to do their part. Living in a post world ... It shouldn’t matter what people think but it does especially with sensitivities running high it’s become that much harder to just be yourself, always be careful not to offend anyone with your neediness or questions about life ... we are mostly responsible for ourselves as adults expected to know it all and perform under all types of pressures. Do your best that doesn’t mean if not affected excel when others are down it just means rise to the occasion of need and help others it’s your help and support that’s needed when everyone’s down not your neediness which can seem selfish to only think about yourself at times like these it’s important for everyone to do their part. The majority of your time should be spent bettering yourself to achieve success and happiness, the less time you spend worrying and the more time you spend working toward your goals in life -the more you’ll attract back ... that is positive attentions in life. Never give up when you’re down remind yourself that you’re worth it. Dating is hard ... The right ones will stay -love should not be an everyday job ... you work for it but don’t let it overwork your emotions and energy that is time spent loving others and yourself. Love ... it comes and it goes those unconditional won’t mind you whether you’re down or up in life love yourself the same anyways, they’ll be glad not to disappoint you when you have it all happy to be around to see you achieve in life with or without them around. Dating is hard ... The right ones will stay -love should not be an everyday job ... you work for it but don’t let it overwork your emotions and energy that is time spent loving others and yourself. Love ... it comes and it goes those unconditional won’t mind you whether you’re down or up in life love yourself the same anyways, they’ll be glad not to disappoint you when you have it all happy to be around to see you achieve in life with or without them around. Learning business ... Don’t over-promote yourself when you earn your wins in life cut your losses and don’t go backwards in life through ALL your mistakes along the way just OVERLOOK what’s gone wrong FIX what you can and DO YOUR BEST that’s all anyone can ask of you. Own up to your wrongs in life you don’t have it all made quite yet ... the difference between those successful and those yet to achieve are graces social graces not aptitude patience and loyalty not be a spendthrift casual or complacent ... getting you’re head in the game means knowing when to STAY PUT when to LET GO and when to keep your mind on your own life not the lives of others to “LIVE your BEST LIFE.” Prepare yourself for everything ... Always be prepared for failure in life you never know what setbacks in life will but you under out of your good wits out of tune with others. When you feel a lack of syncing in life ... that mostly means to work on yourself ... when you feel separate to ... that mostly means you’re right where you need to be ... when you feel stuck that mostly means you’re not where you want to be in life, know yourself. Everyone makes progress at different paces in life yours is not obvious to others ... unless you make it known. And when you’re not sure you can always ask ... for what reasons things are or are not the way things are and leave the rest up for interpretation as to which stories to connect in life, never play victim to your own interpretations in life get made sick by the vocalizations of others not all actions are directed towards you intended to help or harm your psyche or abilities in life. Just be yourself ... The more good times you have in life the better you’ll feel. Don’t be so hard on yourself. If you love to love then love but not to the point you get uncomfortable ... always be yourself. Chances are others comfortability around you is based on your comfort with yourself. Stay motivated. Don’t let opportunities pass you by in life. You never know which opportunities will avail themselves to you if you don’t stay at your best. Life happens in phases don’t get stuck in phases where you don’t feel good enough or able then complain when things don’t work out for you ... why do your best at all times. Love every moment of your life why don’t oversaturate yourself with negativity especially in private conversations ... delete less in life a sure sign you’re not where you need to be. If you can keep a conversation going in the positive well then you know you’re on track. Life’s all about how we interact with others if you can’t keep it positive then best to say nothing at all. You learn a lot in quiet spaces ... You learn a lot in quiet spaces ... about yourself about others. There’s always room for growth never doubt yourself. I think overall messenger is a great service for connecting you with people you would not otherwise be able to be in contact with ... fan mail is a blessing not to be abused. You learn a lot about yourself in the process of sharing with others your doubts and your dreams. Eventually all things must come to an end ... breakups are difficult but not impossible it’s mostly you that needs to detach from anything or anyone who no longer is helping you hurt yourself in the process of loving yourself or others. (Removed from insta) Stay positive even through your worst days. We all go through difficult times some more difficult than others but never lose your sense of faith in yourself. Often times it’s when we give up we need to keep going. You’ll never know what’s on the other side unless you try. LYS 44 “What hurts more -the pain of hard work or the pain of regret?” Knowing your limits in life helps, especially knowing when to stop doing anything that’s causing you harm. Sometimes in life we can keep going other times we need to stop, and sometimes no one knows this but you best. Being able to follow your own intuitions in life takes practice and experience. Reference: 365 Days of Positive Thinking by Jenny Kellett. “What hurts more -the pain of hard work or the pain of regret?” > Knowing your limits in life helps, especially knowing when to stop doing anything that’s causing you harm. Sometimes in life we can keep going other times we need to stop, and sometimes no one knows this but you best. Being able to follow your own intuitions in life takes practice and experience. [Missing quote - rose 🌹] If you want a relationship to work it’s best not to write about them or you guys as a couple - counter-intuitive watching #sexinthecity but it’s true there’s a way to lead discussion and not make things about you or your personal life. Sometimes you’ll say the wrong things and cause your own discomforts in life and sometimes you’ll say all the right things and get a good nights sleep. You are always in control ... remind yourself that you’re worth it and don’t get depressed attached to anyone in life always be independent of others. It really shouldn’t matter what other people think always be yourself ... the more you care the more you’ll be affected. If you used to feel apart of and no longer do that’s just marks the end to one relationship that doesn’t mean there’s not a probability for a new relationship to begin but once one ends allow time for yourself. In order to start any new relationship you should feel put together to attract. Don’t be too hard on yourself we all recover at different paces in life from heartache, heartbreak, and rejection. Never go backwards that’s how you get hurt just move forwards when it comes to love. - - - No one ever said that life would be easy ... sometimes during our most difficult and trying times we find ourselves. Don’t get caught up in what bothers you you’re bound to get hurt. Instead focus on what’s working for you and go from there. When you’re not yourself it’s easy to vent vent frustrations and let yourself go all wrapped in in negativity. Don’t let that happen. Take back control: meditate, run, yoga ... do whatever it takes to get your settings right. Your happiness depends on it that’s you’re well being. Do what you can to stay positive. (1) Get out of bed! (2) Get ready for your day (3) Remind yourself you’re worth it (4) Don’t forget to hydrate and eat food (5) Check in with loved ones (6) Live life to the fullest (7) Do what sets your heart free (8) Work hard (9) Try new things (10) Remember the best of times. Be a happy person ... 9 times out of 10 your happiness will make others happy to see you happy. If you get reminded to smile or asked for smiles means you’re being too hard on yourself. Think what is it that I have to offer the world and am I providing the same as I wish to receive in return. It’s not all about others being nice to you but also requires you to be pleasant toward others, be mindful of your social graces in life that’s not flirting it’s just being nice to all. You give to receive in life. Live life without regret. Don’t be forgetful be mindful. Your needs are your own needs not necessarily the needs of others. Fulfill your dreams but not at the expense of others. Keep in mind boundaries ... a shared happiness is not always a shared dream. Be happy with who and what you have in life be careful never to ask for more than what’s given to receive love in life ... do your best. The main goal (if you’re wise enough to not be selfish) is not to allow your thinking to interfere with the best thinking of others ... that’s being selfless handling life on your own not being too dependent on others for strength. Independent thinking comes at a cost though if you’re alone for too long AND you acquire problems of your own then it is those losses that are harder to recover from being on your own. (1) Use your time wisely (2) Dont forget to check in (3) Stay motivated (4) Be apart of #besocial not anti-social (5) Forgive yourself often life is short but not short enough that you can’t go backwards fix mistakes or move forwards. The big question is whether you can correct your life as it is now and achieve your best still ... that’s up to you. Tomorrow’s a new day don’t let any bad days ruin your long term outlook in life ... be the better judge of your own character pick which days to stick to your repertoire and which days to minus from your lifetime routine - if daily you struggle focus long term positively if you suffered in the past be happy with where you are now pat yourself on the back you’ve come a long way! —- Tomorrow’s a new day don’t let any bad days ruin your long term outlook in life ... be the better judge of your own character pick which days to stick to your repertoire and which days to minus from your lifetime routine - if daily you struggle focus long term positively if you suffered in the past be happy with where you are now pat yourself on the back you’ve come a long way! What do you want in life now is the time why wait until tomorrow to accomplish what you can get done today. Procrastination is just fear of not finishing, failure, or feeling not up to a challenge in life - you set yourself up emotionally and you set yourself up goal wise ... pick and choose your battles in life (how much and how little energy do you have?) ... and go from there, small goals to start THEN you can achieve bigger goals in life. LYS 45 We all go through different phases in life some days more promising than others. You go through rough patches sometimes, this could be one of them. Be reminded of where you’ve been but don’t be too hard on yourself. It’s easy to work yourself back to feelings you’re familiar with ... but you can’t go backwards to see life different grow past your mistakes not think what if applied my thinking now, to me as I was then. You’re bound to get hurt again revisiting a time you were hurt or not as strong ... just move forward, reflect, you can’t transform your past but you can change your now. Eventually you reach a point of monotony ... but sometimes you don’t see results right away. Doing the same thing everyday is being productive but it’s in those subtle changes to your day that makes all the difference. Stay driven as to your goals in life but let no day short or long ruin good progress. Remind yourself of your direction along the way ... are you doing now what needs to get done to end up where you want to be in life and do so. Stay positive nothing can become of negative thoughts you just rally yourself up and let yourself down. Be thankful for everything and everyone around you, know that everyone is doing their best likewise to stay well and take good care of themselves ... you’re not the only one with problems we all have problems. That being said ... don’t bring yourself down in life! When it’s only you standing in the way between your own happiness then that’s time to let things go move forward. Be thankful for every passing day you have when well you never know when a curve ball is gonna get thrown at you and change your whole life for better or worse. Life’s not perfect ... that’s why it’s important to always make the best out of what you have in life. [Missing blue quote before purple] Remind yourself that what you’re going through is completely normal. We all have addictions the point is not to allow those addictions to overcome our best decision making skills and verge on self-harm. Do your best to be mindful of when you’re helping yourself and know the difference ... when you think what you’re doing is helping but really causing you harm to overthink about. Know when to stop and get positive. You’d be surprised people are more forgiving than you think. Whenever your problems pile up to the point you think others are judging you take a step back that’s not always the case that your gossip’d about people have lives of their own always remind yourself of that. You can’t always be right sometimes you may have off days when your best judgment leaves you ... know that the best way to overcome any embarrassment is to live productively and be goal-oriented, positive. LYS 46 Not all things are related always keep an open mind but avoid left fielded arguments in life. Any nuisanced opinions are appreciated if everyone past can be viewed in the positive but be careful whenever delivering any new information or interpretation you don’t reinforce causes or perceptions of those who are offensive normalize that behavior but be sure to normalize the sides that wonder how and why things came about and by what we hope were positive motivations behind created works. There’s never a good time to say goodbye. Sometimes through separation we find closure other times we don’t. Don’t get mad at yourself if things don’t work out, and if you are experiencing problems I hope that bliss finds you eventually. Enjoy those quiet moments in life with your significant other. You may not always be able to say the right thing but sometimes just being in good company makes everything better. It’s not alright to ignore others, no matter how defiant in the right you feel, it’s okay to make amends and love again after failure or hardship not just throw a 3-4 year relationship out the window over little things in life. The silent treatment works but sometimes it hurts, love more, talking things out sometimes makes everything better. It’s painful when you’re in the wrong ... own up to your mistakes in life + don’t make your pain the pain of others. When you go through a difficult time or experience in life think of who matters to you most and go from there ... not ruminate over who has harmed you or hurt your feelings, stay true to yourself. So long as you blame others for your mistakes in life you won’t be able to heal sometimes owning up to what has gone wrong makes everything better, that’s not being defiant and letting things go. Time flies ... particularly when looking back on your life, I’m not sure whether life hits you hard in your 30s on purpose but it means one of two things -to focus on yourself or focus on others, depending on whether or not you get married and have kids you may be living with more regrets in life than you wish you had, had you gotten married and stayed in relationships you don’t always find better ... there are no guarantees in life its best to better yourself with or without a partner in life. Just do your best to stay positive and be normal ... sometimes it’s best to not say anything at all. Whenever you’re overcoming something personal - don’t let what others think about you affect your ability to fix yourself - if it’s by what you say others justify distancing themselves from you then that’s a sign that you’re going in the wrong direction it’s not your responsibility to stop others from hurting you in the abstract it’s better to rise above and not be so easily offended by others (if it’s not about you). #lesson: Don’t make anything about you that’s not about you. Remember the good times ... our best memories are what sometimes help keep us moving forward. Remind yourself you’re worth it and deserve the best and let the rest go. No failure is ever worth losing yourself over. You arrive at best or better once your able to overcome what’s holding you back in life that’s letting go losing yourself not pushing past normal or going backwards it means being in the now appreciating where you’re at in life and starting anew ... be hopeful good things are sure to come with a positive attitude in life. Always set your standards high you never know who’s watching. You can either be a crowd pleaser writing or stick to your own beat in life ... it’s always about what’s trending but rather what needs to be heard. We all see differently no opinion should be of lesser value trust your instincts, listen often, and strive for progress not perfection. Be so busy that you don’t even have time to think about the past or waste time posting your adventures along the way, less is more. Stay true to yourself sometimes being too open hurts you in the long run while sharing private information making your life more public than it needs to be. You won’t always get your way no matter how presentable you are there will be others not in acceptance of you ... give it time. Social anxiety is more to do with acceptance of self than it is about how others treat you. Until you are comfortable with yourself will you be comfortable around others. Love yourself but not to the point your happiness is dependent upon it don’t set such high expectations of it ... not all goods in life equal success. If you think self love is the ticket to happiness you may be sorely disappointed if others do not love you too then. At certain points in our lives we are loved that’s for others to determine. Don’t waste time and energy doing things for others to love you but do things because you love yourself. Expect less do more in life, privacy is everything. You may not agree with everyone’s perspectives in life but that doesn’t mean make things about you ... as followed people as reading have the benefit of assumption not to your best interests thought about as derived from good or bad places in life thought wise, nothing ever positive became of ideas based upon wrongs in life ... don’t tie the successes of others to stories shared from different lives as though influenced by or by a guided set of deductions derived thoughts. We each live our own lives and by different exposures in life see the world, we are not all the same. Even if everyone knew the same information each would be affected differently having known information about self or others ... if on the outside not affected but know that all those within a story may be affected by the sharing of a story by others outside of a story having an opinion about those within a story. Why they say not to worry what others think ... sometimes no explanation is best be appreciative of those who try to help build a better understanding of the times not hurt those who come forward share how they’ve been affected by others. Why it’s not advantageous for the story teller to come forward in a big way. You can’t go back in time always to stories from your past to help build a better picture of what and who is connected if no longer connected affected by one anothers lives. Usually people who are well stay well because they are not connected to those who are not well. If a story hits harder than anesthesia then it’s probably not wise to share the story if it causes you illness to share it or makes you or others look bad as connected in the past. Connecting the past at a later point makes you look disconnected from others or trying to build connections based upon who you’ve known in the past. No name dropping is preferable in the realm of who knows who but sometimes it helps to know ... who’s connected to know who’s been affected by illness or by the illnesses of others, not well today. Hope everyone feels better! When the going gets tough keep going in life -you’ll thank yourself later for not giving up and pushing yourself through the days you feel like isolating, staying in bed all day, or avoiding your priorities in life. We can’t all be superheroes day in and day out but you can still get at least some work done no matter how off you feel no matter how off your day is no matter how off others feel to you -don’t be judgmental. Be patient with yourself and trust that those who care or are watching over you want what’s best for you as you should too. Live life to the fullest, take fewer risks in life, and always stay true to yourself.
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