How to Avoid Risks in Life: It’s never odd to think too much or to love too much just within reason always when to stop engaging in activities to feel well sometimes even things that make you feel good can result in an aversion to if other things do not go right in your life, always be prepared for withdrawals and breaks in life you can’t constantly expect to feel good or a certain way everyday know what you have in life know what makes you happy and if you seek more in life to feel complete think is this necessary something I need or want and why and what good or positive purpose does leaving one position of wellness for another result in pain think do you have energy for change or do changes and loss cause you to lose motivation slow down in life feel behind without or deplete your energy as wasted getting accustomed to a new set of conditions or beliefs in life or exposures - starting anything new is full of excitement but don’t waste energy expecting to feel the same as when I’m familiar territory chances are anything new will take time to adjust know yourself.
LYS 15 01-06-19
You can’t rush through life. As you get older you have to pace yourself life’s not all about feeling good. What you get done you get done and move forward in life nothing can be learned by looking back. Anytime you get paranoid think what it is now that you have to be thankful for. Are you where you want to be in life and what makes you feel of value. Keep going in life stop less for others and do what makes you happy, live long.
Always do your best to stay positive. There will be days you’ll feel too tired to do anything that’s normal. Life has its ups and downs. Just keep going and never give up. You cannot be too dependent on others for wellness most days you only have yourself.
It’s important never to complain nothing seems to go right afterward. Listen even when you’re stubborn chances are there is some truth to the opinions of others even if what they see does not match what you see. Know yourself well enough when to stop not everyone can redirect you toward your goals in life you mostly have yourself to blame when you fall off track ... always prove them wrong. Don’t stay anywhere to the point of embarrassment keep your pride know your strengths ... you belong anywhere well and when sick no one wants you, remember that. There will always be excuses no one wants to take responsibility when another does not foster or thrive in any environment - be the bigger person and let go. Once you start thriving doing better in life hope that those behind you do well too not as attached affected by you not doing well in life. Never in my life have I changed so much to accommodate another and still not have been good enough. Stick to what works best for you. With or without people in your life keep living life. #stopsuicide
You can be a positive person and things still may not go well for you in life sometimes that’s no ones fault not even your own. It’s by what you choose to focus on takes you to where you end up in life better off or worse off. Don’t allow others to dictate where you end up in life you know yourself best. Know when to let go and when to move forward in life you’ll thank yourself later for not having stuck around to see your life fall apart. Life is full of miracles your life included if you don’t wish to be apart of the happinesses of others you can always leave and find happiness on your own.
You have options in life you are one of them choose you always. Not everyone will be on your team in life you can’t compare yourself to others. If you’re not happy with where you are in life think what is it that you can be doing better to get to where you want to be in life. It’s never too late to change, don’t be defiant, be proactive, improve, not go backwards, and always do your best.
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Always stay positive. No matter how your life goes, the days long or short keep going in life and never give up. Be wise about self care don’t waste your time energy and thoughts on things that don’t matter. It’s more necessary to assemble your present than it is to assemble your past.
Never let yourself go. You’ll regret backtracking needing to put yourself back together after you fall. Don’t let anyone get the best of you present or past. Always be your best loveable self no matter who comes into your life or leaves. You will always be you.
You know you best -no one can tell you otherwise unless you see so for yourself. People can advise you of what to do what not to do in life but ultimately it’s your choice how you decide to live your life. Take advice whole heartedly when you’re not doing well in life and criticisms with a grain of salt. Don’t beat yourself up over it if you’re not perfect where you are now. Chances are it’s just a phase and will pass. If you allow everyone to get the best of you you’ll never be happy with where you are now.
You are in part the company you keep. Never let your guard down to the extent that you lose your sense of self and purpose in life you can wind up losing everything. Know your limits in life, you can’t go running around pretending to be something you are not always be yourself. Once you lose your sense of self and purpose think what can I do better in life not by who better in life you can find to make you a better person. Only until you are better will you find better in life. When you set your expectations low you tend to find more than what you bargained for when you set your expectations too high you wind up less than happy with what you’ve got.
There are no do-overs in life. Lend a hand to those in need but don’t expect the same time and attention in return. You’d think that karma would take care of the rest but life isn’t always a point system. You can’t relive life. Happy moments are worth living for. Different isn’t always better, and familiar is comforting. Learn when to take risks and when to stop. If you’re not happy with where you are now then stick to what you’re good at ... good generally follows from what we know best rarely while learning do we shine or set ourselves apart - to rise above feeling less than in life think ... not where you could be but make the most of where you are now. Always pick up from where you left off ... don’t let too much time pass without bettering yourself, it’s not at your expense only when you get set behind in life, miss out on living life. Contribute to causes when you can it’s not always necessary to benefit from the time spent helping others. -When you want and need less in life the happier you’ll be with what you have.
Don’t make life harder than it needs to be. Every day is an opportunity to better yourself and those around you. Until you can manage well yourself can you manage others, that includes healthy interpretations of what others think and how what you do affects what they think of you. Do your best not to engage in any activities that would undermine the judgments of you or reinforce negative judgments toward you. Always be in control.
Love who you are when you’re with the one you love and do everything you can to make it last.
Life can be unpredictable at times even unmanageable but you have to keep moving forward. Sometimes fear will stop you in your tracks and keep you from living life and staying in the moment. You just have to always do your best not to allow those fears to come to fruition and keep living the life you think you deserve. There’s no such thing as perfect, only a good life with a big heart would accept anyone lesser than, including me. Keep your head up, and out of the clouds. A better life awaits you you just have to steer clear of avoiding life and living it as best you can.
I think if you have something thoughtful to say then share it if no one understands you or mistakes your cares as for aggressive stakes in matters or from their perspective coming from a bad place then it’s a no win situation also known as a fight when someone hears what you have to say and not to their benefit justify any disgust or hatred for you as to why. Usually people who hate you need added justification for thinking poorly of you hearing every detail in the negative spinning every story in the negative and not seeing your point of view or what good you have done for another’s never a nuisance or a clown to anyone or creating any controversies to which embarrassment is felt likewise to the one not receiving any accommodations in life life is difficult it’s no easy task being bullied and for the later purpose for identifying potential misinformation or direction for story telling it was made a point of clarifying the other parties to whom were affected me myself included - when there a multiple victims to a story do not blame the story teller for coming forward how an anti-bullying statute is made to no enable that harm to continue as toward them identifying them as the whore they as victim. Allow people time to heal find themselves and either do or no not get back together that choice is up to those who share love not for society to decide who gets loved based upon who is most liked popular known as or not known as a whore.
When everything quiets that’s a good time to work on yourself usually chaos erupts when we are not happy with where we are not keeping busy and or bored - time passing but no movement forward in life. I was once told “if you’re not in motion” you’re not moving forward in life and that success is about being task oriented. You either are someone who listens in life to those who care about you and love you or made fun of it for having been given advices in life and still not been able to find success with all the support you’ve been afforded in life. Some decisions are easier said than done including living an accomplished life one that you are proud of. Everyone has their own issues in life “be careful” not to make the issues of others your own. #presidenttrump inspired #lifeadvice.
It’s easy to get carried away in life doing things that you love to do such as writing. It’s not always humorous to reference others as this may cause discomfort to be mentioned. Not all is fair when it comes to love always do your part to be an equal addition to any friendship, relationship, or co-working environment. The best attitude is by someone who doesn’t rely on others for happiness or a sense of normalcy, the best companions in life are those who are independent, if you can’t manage that much then continue to work on yourself.
Live with no regrets. That means don’t base your confidence off how many confidants you have in life but base it upon your well being, if you are the company you keep, then make sure to be yourself your own best friend. You won’t always have it all in life but that doesn’t mean stop trying to. It’s not really about what goes up must come down but what goes up stays up as long as you keep trying in other arenas in life, how to maintain wellness ... never give up on your physical health usually all else follows from there. Live first for yourself and secondly for others. #dating #wellness #mentalhealth #fitness #balance
It’s hard to plan out your life especially when your lost or at a lost. It can be hard at times to see beyond your troubles, thinking backwards instead of forwards. Give yourself time to heal. With a strong sense of faith in yourself I’ve been told “time heals all wounds.” Don’t be so hard on yourself everyone has problems. It’s how you deal with your past moving forward that indicates where you end up in life in a better spot or worse off.
What is faith? Believing in yourself or believing in others and why is faith required for any relationship to last? Is it really necessary that you believe in someone to call that love? I think so. If you don’t believe in someone than question why are you with that person, maybe it is trust that is lacking, why love is not felt in the immediate. People show love in different ways, the goal is to always be faithful that’s more than trusting one another with your heart it’s about sharing a life with someone isn’t that always the end goal? Some of us true were meant to be alone, that could change however upon meeting someone who loves you, what then can you do to make it work?
Stay positive good things happen when you least expect it. To be afforded privileges in life you have to play by the rules that may not always be by the book. Do your best to keep up with the times it’s not necessary that you understand everything even as explained be able to empathize with whom and why. Don’t make other people’s problems your own always be yourself.
I was once told to “think big” by someone I’ve dated on and off for years. This is not stuff you talk about out loud generally who you date, it’s bound to wind up in self-sabatoge things not working out for you then paranoid about loss by declaring what you do have in life. Much about life has to do with not sharing and by what you share influences the opinions of others toward you or so leads discussions about you in the positive or negative. Always be sure to be confident by whatever you choose to share in life make sure it accurately reflects who you are not go by what you think others think of you.
Timing is everything. It may not always be a good time to start something new but why wait. The more you prolong the process of getting started the harder beginning will be.
Not everyone will be on your side in life and that’s okay. You won’t win every argument … people’s minds are not always at your disposal, be ready to face challenges, disagreements, those who play devils advocate and those who automatically take the other persons side. Have fun in life even if you are on the losing team thought wise, lifes a journey full of ups and downs and most feelings are only temporary. Sure enough you’re bound to get better at managing your esteem and the esteems of others without intruding upon their self-worth and abilities in life to feel better than, be self-assured that you don’t always know best and respect all opinions when if shared that’s their time spent too hashing things out.
Think for yourself and others. That’s not the same as thinking about others, think mostly about yourself in life ... that usually helps to clear the air not dive into obsessions about how others are or are living their lives ... do your best to be mostly concerned with yourself. The less you care what others think and the less you think about what others are thinking the more you’ll care for yourself and not be so easily bothered or worried about what people would think, do think, or are thinking about you.
Just do your best. You can’t always use mental health issues or meds as an excuse for the way you live your life, how you deal with your emotions, define what your feeling or what others are thinking about you, you won’t always know what the right thing to do is. Meds may be a crutch but don’t allow people to be your crutch try to take the place of things in your life that bring you comfort ... you are only dependent upon what you have dependency on don’t ever be dependent upon people, you should always depend on yourself and do your best to live independently of others.
Managing yourself online is no easy task there’s a delicate balance to be maintained: what is to remain private and what’s appropriate to share ... depending on the times this changes and as you mature you will find yourself sharing less and less online. Social media is not new to everyone and for those of us as latecomers it’s easy to pick up the addiction that is to share and get feedback from others, that’s mostly what social media is about ... feedback. If you on your own don’t know or aren’t sure then don’t share it as a general rule of thumb chances are your bound to make your audience uncomfortable too just as you are sharing something you’re not sure of whether to share or not. Always lead yourself online confidently from that focus on positives the best words will come to mind.
Be a creator in life not a follower of words, when it comes from within you feel much better about yourself not as regurgitating what is said to you, come to believe in yourself regardless of what others say to you, but don’t be so stubborn as to be unaccepting of the input of others, you know you best, some may think they know you better, but don’t as controlled become accustomed to life driven by input you wind up lost in that way you should instead be driven by your own goals in life not just as led driven by the goals of others in life, much about life is a team effort that is if you work well with others if you feel that your best interests are not met by any team effort than that’s you “I” not to include yourself in any endeavors which you do not fit wholly as well -why some stay home some up to bat among the well ... don’t lose faith you too can be of service among those well so long as you first master wellness on your own without the help of others.