Chapter 32: Bits and Pieces by Leslie A. Fischman
12-22-17 (Written 12-21-17) cc: #JusticeAlito
12-21-17 cc: #JusticeAlito
You will always be judged most based upon where you are at in your life now.
Content is about what you share. What you share reflects what you think. Who cares is people watching. You cannot control them they cannot control you. You will always have unwanted followers, anyone who talks shit to your face is an unwanted follower. Should leave me alone.
I'm not self-destructive. I do not blog seldom because it's too risky for me personally that's not a selfish decision that's called being smart with tact playing by the rules. When you are discriminated against that does not cause mental disturbance that is a pre-existing condition purposefully aggravated to cause harm.
Causes for concern once relevant cause dissatisfaction in oneself and apathy for the offender or the one who offends the other. Once offense is taken, respect is lost both ways. When respect is lost care is lost. When care is lost that is reflected in the work ethic, concern or aggravation existent. -I'm not an experiment.
Apathy is not the same as drive or care or passion for causes. Apathy toward one does not mean apathy toward all, you can only do so much to help others. BEFORE either they cause harm to you or cause harm to you to see if you cause harm to others and why for what reasons. I'm not on drugs I'm not a paranoid person.
When one is offended trust is lost when trust is lost one cannot be trusted when one is helped and still causes harm one cannot be helped by the individual to whom one does not respect, that's a given. -Instead one must redirect their focus toward those who care on an individual basis based upon presence.
You cannot judge the future or predict the future based on past outcomes. You always have to be hyper-vigilant of self, after trauma, suit your needs first reduce risk of worsening your condition displaced by the needs of others based upon their conditions present. Life's not a race to see who gets well first or based upon present support but by what you do to get better.
Always be present, based on your needs now, determine your future forward. How will your needs be met and based upon that conclusion resolve circumstances that suit your needs without interfering with the needs of others, that's called having compassion for self and others.
Focus on what's important. Hurting others is never the solution. When you hurt others you only hurt yourself that's called human nature. All humans are co-dependent, if so if possible, therefore all needs are based upon common principles: (1) esteem (2) community (3) necessity (4) common grounds (5) peace (6) welfare (7) common knowledge (8) common place (9) and common sense = confidence #publicsafety. When safety is achieved progress is made when trust is lost safety still exists, when public is safe people are safe -everything within counts toward that. When everything is lost loss is felt.
How you cope is your right to privacy. That's your personal business what bothers you about (1) yourself and (2) others. What defines you is by what you say, what you say reflects how you feel. Do not be intimidated by the confidences of others as you are your own person responsible for yourself not others, always be kind, resourceful but not hurtful -harm cannot be undone once a situation is worsened beyond the scope of original issues versed reported. What's transcribed by outsiders is not your responsibility to render make amends for or to only to move forward do as I'm told.
You should never hold higher expectations of others than you do for yourself, that only leads to disappointment and heartache. Its best always to think in terms of ethics, guidelines, and principles what makes sense and what doesn't make sense. We only fight ourselves when we fight others, raise our own anxieties, best to stay calm, geared toward positives. When geared toward positives end results occur that reflect that outlook sought. How you make seen what's felt, known. What is right should be seen, first, always.
Leslie A. Fischman
Please Note: I have finished writing the first draft of my first book, still editing Ch 13-25, my goal is to publish my book 2020 after I graduate, working on myself right now.