By: Leslie A. Fischman
Whenever something is stated, certain prompts come to mind, as to what each statement concerns:
That's not it
Expectation of replied replied
Waiting for reply when it occurs
Reply given is what's expected
What's expect is what's expected
What's generated is what is heard
What is heard is what is stated
What is stated is what's understood
What's understood is what's assumed
What's assumed is what's heard
What's heard is what's known
What's known is what's thought
What's thought is what has
What has is ones side
Ones side is ones beliefs
Ones beliefs is ones intuition
Ones intuition is ones expectation
Ones expectation is ones interpretation and ones assumption
What's heard then if matches equals feels good or bad or off putting then equals correct sound right or wrong
Whenever something negative is stated or whenever there is an expectation and reply waited for in anticipation to - the (a) reply given is with knowing the expectation had given in reply to knowing. (b) affected, influenced in some way.
If you taint an image you must repair that image at some future point or at the time being w/a positive representation prior, or just fix yourself, for whatever it’s worth 2003 was not my shining moment. -
Lifestyle (definition) a way of life that produces positive functioning & satisfaction in life provides basic needs & helps you achieve goals. Everyone's definition of fulfillment is different some demand more or less depending on what their goals in life are. All of which are based upon the standards we set [for] ourselves high or low depending on the level of importance that need provides. I set very high standards for myself why I'm a Leader not a Follower no matter where I go or who I’m with, unless I choose to relax. In order to relax I must trust my surroundings.
There are energy givers & receivers in life. It's the energy givers who's energy gets poisoned that makes them volatile be then they repel. Energy which replenishes comes from without not from about and in due time these positive changes arise from positive reinforcement
[[Assemble – to-Do] I think the alone time is good. There needs to be a bond (trust) then I'm good with you in groups no one can interfere w/my confidence. Positive and negative thoughts can be foundation for positives ITS IMPORTANT ONLY TO SEE THROUGH THE NEGATIVES TO SOME + THAT + IS YOU.] - "turning a positive into a negative" - A CENTRAL PERSON OF INTEREST TO "hit up" for daily opinion thoughtful prose INTENDED TO HELP YOU VALUE WOMEN as leaders too. -
THEORY (WOMEN IN GANGS): That hitting on 1 chick ("running a train on her") will make her stronger.]
This is the most difficulty I have experienced in my life getting along with another usually get along well with others. I took your feedback along the way, way too personally, way off base to be threatened by anything or anyone, and cold toward you. You are the one patient enough to help me. I'm really sorry for days I have been sick not motivated giving up not being appreciative happy like when I started work excited enthusiastic and positive outlook. I don't know what happened. I'm really sorry I disappointed you or if I offended you in any way or felt like a waste of time, I am lucky to receive guidance from you in the right direction. I just want to work, I'll clean houses, help everyday in the office and work for my Parents until I stay 100% no relapses. Really disappointed with myself. I'm sorry I embarrassed you or Bag Fund as a whole.
You first submission, it’s never pre-planned. When you are looking to achieve a goal in life it just happens. Life happens to those who make an effort, beyond what is considered normal, excel beyond expectation, those are the ones who become successful. When you fear you are at your worst, chances are your best is only a few steps away. The moment you give up hope, is usually when you take your first step back. The future you see is only what you know, if what you know is not clear, you can always see through the lense of another, from what they know see more clear. This is why no one’s perspective should dominate, if combined perspectives enable us to see the future more clear, a combined positive will create a better future, if what we see becomes, if what we know is, if what will be can only be if what we see is positive. If positive can be achieved best combined, then combined perspective is best, reduce the percentage of negativity seen moving forward, the greater the likelihood for positivity to occur, the greater the percentage of positivity seen, if combined.
People will try to get you to say or explain –rationalize behavior and things that you say as having some purpose to benefit you or others, - deemed with necessity to provide closure. There is no closure. People think by their experiences. They are more knowledgeable or know best by confidence. That comes from within or without. Who always knows better? You the writer or those affected. Reading is at will not a requirement not important for me to be heard at this moment in time, or the point this was written, was just trying to make a positive difference.
Coming up in life isn't always easy. It takes a lot of hardwork, dedication, commitment, adherence to values, positivity, focus, purpose, and perseverance. We call that guts, knowing the difference between right and wrong, facing challenges head on, self-growth, and taking risks in life (while guided, supported, and supervised by those who care for us) whether in public or private, performing well under pressure is often a prerequisite for success. Milestones, setbacks, or failure one must continue to achieve in life in order to become successful. Maintaining a good track record, being professional, are required to create new opportunities for yourself in the future. When one door closes another one opens, so long as we have faith in ourselves, our abilities, listen to others, respect one another, everyone has the opportunity to follow their dreams. Main Point: Overcoming learning disability has been one of the greatest achievements I've made in my life. Learn from your mistakes, and build a better future for yourself, easy does it, one step at a time. #Sober
When people are working hard and there is some strong cohesion among us and positive consensus opinions to guide us along. We move fast. When moving Fast in the wrong direction it is extremely noticeable to everyone but when we are moving in the right direction others follow. May not have it all. I may not have found success in the Work Force in a PAID position but I've found success day in & day out for years. Success is built from Trust. Trust is earned not given. I'm not the most Famous person. But I'm Popular online. W/that comes Responsibility.
Responsibility requires you to be a Leader in thought. To help make people feel stable when under attack trying to affect out stability. Do not allow others to impede negatively on your personal growth, we are not Actors we are Human, therefore in control at all times. It is important not to blame others when things do not work out for you personally whether you are right or wrong it only makes you look bad. That is the exact purpose for which people try to get under your skin bc your success interferes with their happiness & ability to succeeds
That is unfortunate when others cannot be happy for another but only try to interfere w/the happiness & success of another to their advantage. It is to their advantage to succeed in breaking down something positive & turning them into a negative so that they appear better feel greater than. One of the most important things I've learned in Sobriety is to appreciate how fortunate I am in life & not to be easily affected by those who are not. In order to not be easily affected requires a certain degree of maturity & consistency in thought, demeanor & decision making skills demonstrated.
It is most advantageous for us to step aside under those circumstances and not fight & just allow them to shine. It was to my Detriment to step aside & let another Shine at work in Century City, she was from France, I interviewed her and assisted with the hiring of her, choosing our firm to work for over other paid positions offered to her, she mentioned upon asking. -But I know if valued appreciated & worth it -I'll get the paid position one day. People who Blog are very shy about sharing their Blog with others. It's not something you talk about. Bloggings not Taboo, but like being a Journalist,so to not make people uncomfortable keep everything in its natural state you don't say much
Sometimes it takes time for two People to be in similar places in their lives in order to do well together both on a upswing. Blogging occurred while I was on a Downswing coming up and others have already come up, watching me as I maintained momentum, to where? I was just writing my thought outloud. Sometimes I feel like I need to catch up in life, as though my loyalty to others is in constant question, second guessed as a: traitor, a follower, or someone worthwhile getting to know, and hear me out –I’ve always been a loyal companion, always a source of positivity, never a source of negativity, and someone who can be relied upon, a trusted companion and friend in life. -New material everyday??? Everyday. Okay. -Learn to let go in life & don't hurt over your losses just make us Stronger. After computer loss, I was so devastated. But I just need to move forward schedule a MacBook Appointment with @applenws and let them put together the pieces.
The Internet (Description)
Living in the Abstract describes life Online, when you are distant from Reality and in Dream mode. It's normal to want to get away. Be patient w/yourselves.Why is the Internet so Abstract. Because when you log on and log off you decide where you spend your time in between not routine, changes. Abstract, because it's easy to get carried away Online, time goes by fast. Probably why people enjoy being online it helps pass the time. Learn to let go of your fears in life there is always a window of missed opportunity that exists when your insecure.Carpe Diem Seize the day. Everyone stay calm. -----Don't be so easily offended and give time to allow problems to resolve themselves &clarity to arrive.
Don’t miss opportunities in life taking your time or pre planning how you want things2be just be whether perfect or on track, live4the moment. It is to my readers beneficial interest, I write, not to my own best interests as this is an APP & online Newsfeed. An Original Composition.
The times call for us to respond. All monies aside, it does not matter to me whether or not I make money writing only to help those in need. As a Writer I am challenged to come up with new material everyday since 2013. Assembling a Book is a matter of need, monetary need. -First ... The goal is to make sure everyone has someone to talk to everyday a #FriendService Online for those in need. #Facebook
Once that need is met ... And I find stability writing online like I have now. -Now I can continue to provide a Service & Produce on the side. Which means...To continue to write everyday online as promised by my APP, & write a Book on the side that Summarizes the contents of my APP. To the Entertainment Industry ... I keep an ongoing daily Memoir Online. They utilize in Producing Film, Television, & Music for Everyone. Keeping a Journal is nothing new to me, I've kept a Diary since I was 5 years old, filling up Journals front to back Writing my Thoughts. An Original Composition Broken up into pieces. It is more work for me as a Writer to Produce Online than at home in Private.
Remember, there's no such thing as a Stupid question. Just avoid the negatives & stay positive, positive thoughts prayers breed what? Positivity. In life ... Always best to learn how to be a Team Player not Co-Dependent and not Self-Serving and Diplomatic & Professional not Casual. I feel like they expect me to be something I'm not. Successful people work. Why I'm successful online bc I'm Sober & I don't go out. Usually when one has a lot of positive energy they go out&socialize I stay home bc I then drink or do drugs & go back to Square One #LostTrust
I think bc I'm a strong person it gets mistaken as though I'm trying to lead or take charge or be number one, no just feel equal blend in. Yes ... I have to try this hard to achieve happiness in life, be well liked, and blend in. Most people don't need to try this hard to break even in life. But it's worth it now I'm glad I tried bc now I can @Bradybuzz Online. Help. Everything else is up for interpretation. Your belief systems are your choice. I just choose to share mine, which are mostly general.
Life occurs on its own timing not always your best timing why it's important to be flexible be spontaneous & take chances in life, have Faith. Having Faith means knowing the difference between right & wrong & trusting that if you do what's right for you & others good will come. One does not require others to have Faith in them in order to be successful have Faith, to require others to would be Selfish on our Part. It is not required for others to have Faith in us in order to be successful have Faith, to require others to would be Selfish on our Part. All that is required of us is to have Faith in ourselves to achieve some purpose greater than ourselves by giving back & not be a burden. When we overburden others with our troubles we can be draining best left to Professionals for Feedback, & we become vulnerable insecure. To not be draining always make certain that what you share about yourselves strengthens your good character not weaken you sense of self. Sharing & ability to strengthen your good character not weaken occurs once you have processed on your own or w/Professional guidance. Friends make great sounding boards when we are not sure of ourselves or what is troubling us they help point out what we can't see yet. Example: I was so caught up beating myself up I missed my #Facebook Birthday wishes which would've turned me over faster back to the light. Why Friends make great sounding boards. When we can't see positive it's important to look towards those who can.
I think everything happens for a reason. Now that makes sense to me. It’s important to always be proactive like me. Everything you do either helps or injures your ability to move forward if you keep worrying about the past you’ll never meet future goals. If you stop worrying about right now so much you’ll get closer to meeting your daily goals to get to where you see yourself in the future. –You only have one life to live make the most of it, no life worth living is worth living in regret enjoy every moment the good and the bad.
Positivity Speech by Leslie A. Fischman (Written: 10/31/15, Twitter)
Do not be deceived, success cannot be achieved without first recognizing failure either by oneself or others how we prevail survive, succeed. Failure occurs when while one attempting to achieve success fails to meet the standards required to excel and minimally meets expectation. Not all failures are viewed upon with the same degree of abhorence as that who fails [to] reflect upon themselves to achieve , we see forward beyond failure. Why waste time loathing in failure stirring up negative emotions and giving in to sin that carries no momentum for us forward. No shortage of values and good character results from the wrongs of others but only by our own wrongs do we limit our satisfaction in life.
All dialectical considerations need be made where poison that thrusts so deep we rot in sin blinde to causes for which we feel emptied shot. These truths we hold certain for that which grows in sullen sanctity of the fruits we bear blinde folded devalue with consideration we stifle. How can we see positive buried in negativity to the blinde masses we fold and shake with dishonesty lie until our teeth yellow with shame.
We lean not to anyone under circumstances where trust cannot be made we shrike and cry helpless when we lean on anyone but ourselves co-dependent. Independence is the key ingredient our forefathers have lent to us to achieve peace from within amongst ourselves only achieved by consensus.
Be not who you think you should be but be all that you can be with the World at your disposal, harm no one help only when able to help oneself. We map when lost when our tools for success are broken we build new tools, hand off to those in power to build a new for us to thrive positively. Communication without consensus can bear no cohesion necessary for positive life skills achieved if blinde in darkeness we rot and drown lost.
Lost Essay (Peet’s Coffee) August 2017 by Leslie A. Fischman
There is no such thing as being lost. So long as you are doing your best to better oneself everyday. Then there is no reason for one to feel lost. The feeling of being lost occurs when you either lose direction and purpose in life as a result of choices made, or possibly because one is misdirected in life. Whatever the course, it is our own responsibility to get back on track. We establish the points of reference form which decisions are made by us and we are responsible for the judgments passed about is, based on what we put out there. If what you see becomes, similarly what other project onto you may become, but only if you allow yourself to be controlled by others. Self-fulfilling prophecies occur in one or two ways (1) how you see yourself; or (2) how others see you. You are always in control.
Trustworthiness by Leslie A. Fischman (Definition of, triggered by Attorney JWS in passing) 12/26/12
Cannot be trusted means to me that someone has something to hide, or one who does not fully disclose or withholds or lies, or misleads, the opposite of cannot be trusted to me means honesty and open-ness, right or wrong for better or worse, without hesitation or fear of another’s interpretation or mis-interpretation but in trust in another which is reciprocal by another’s point of view, but speaks when clear and when not clear not able to speak clearly and disciplined. Cannot be trusted to me means that gaps in ones statement cannot be filled by any words which would otherwise render the persons worth, irreparable, and rendering something of value worthless by the words of another. Somewhere in this I forgot where I was going with this. Even if someone answers a question wrong or does not answer it in the way one wants the question to be answered does not render someone untrustworthy, but maybe someone who is trying their best to speak without error, so better to speak less, and work harder as a granule of sand than tr[y] to be anything in life they are not but only what they are capable of, and what is learned from direct experience and exposure, not sure where I was going with this but just writing from the heart, what other people think matters to me, call that stupid but it does. I guess that’s what makes me immature, the opposite of mature, perhaps my biggest defect, or another way to look at it means hat awareness is important to me, another way to look at it, in the positive.
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